What do I do?

[Native]

Hey everybody... how does a guy who:
-has no pre-selection
-has no social skills ( well no good social skills - no ability to make friends/acquaintances)
-has a fear of being judged negatively
-has a scarcity mindset

start approaching and attracting women?

I've got no base to go off of and don't know what to do? =(

 

[Talmadge]

The answer is simpler than you think. You get out there and get experience. I've seen people in a similar situation who pushed their boundaries, and got major success as a result. Nobody wants to be judged negatively, I know that. Only by getting out into the world can you hope to gain more wisdom. Set the most minor goals and work towards accomplishing them. Ex: Talk to a girl (flirty or non-flirty, it's your choice), be more assertive around others, etc...

Try coming across as confident and dominant through your body language. Raise your chin level to the ground, walk slowly, straighten your back in line with your body as much as you can. Move your shoulders in correlation with your legs as they step. NEVER slouch. Stand tall, once again back straight, chin up, and never cross your arms. Hold both you arms on your hips. And do some Google research of your own because I can only explain so far.

Best of luck to you and the future improvements you are bound to make!