Nuncle,
Whenever I read comments like this (which show up on Facebook quite often from a good chunk of females), you just have to remember ONE thing: they are leaving out the fact that they came up with these "rules" for who'd they like to date because they were probably dumped by a strong, dominant man.
So really what those comments are referring to are the fact that strong, dominant men "scare" them because they are so attractive, yet they also break their hearts and leave them feeling empty. So while their conscious mind is saying, "I want a man I can control and does everything that this other guy I dated SHOULD have done for me," her hormones and her physical being are still screaming, "well, I REALLY want a man who is strong and dominates me, but also cares about my feelings and the things I care about outside of a sexual relationship."
Keep in mind that girls ALWAYS make these comments with a specific guy they've had a bad experience with in mind, and it's likely a guy that took them to bed quickly and then treated them poorly afterward!
- Franco