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What do you do if she says she's married immediately?

ph40

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Let's say that you are talking to a woman who has shown you IOIs - a glance, lingering near you, etc. She seems interested in you, and eventually you're making some small-talk with her, and when you go to suggest seeing her somewhere else (setting up a date), she quickly says, exactly: "I would... but I'm married."

Let's say this is in a public area like a coffee shop or a grocery store, during day game. So definitely IOIs, definitely had some rapport, not a lengthy conversation, but she quickly brings it up.

I've read from some PUA sites that if she's actually married and wiling to cheat on her husband with you, that you usually won't hear about her husband until after you've had sex or right about the time you're going to have sex. So if she quickly brings it up? How do you read this situation and what would you do as a skilled seducer? Take it as a challenge? See it as a "white lie?" As the truth and plow on? Or as a glaring sign of *disinterest* and move on? Or something else?
 

DarkKnight

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When you are in doubt like this it is always better to push forward.. her resistance/compliance will tell you where you are at. But I have to say.. with some girls who like me but are attached.. I don't mess around with them. I don't want peoples misery on my hand.. especially when they are people I care about/symnpathize. I know a lot of people lack restraint.. just today a girl who is married, but she cant fight nature as well as she should. Puts herself in my orbit.. keeps talking to me, but I dont want to hurt her situation. It is not worth it in my book.

BUT... if the girl is being aggressive or very overt.. yeah she is just playing with fire and all bets are off. Because those probably do it with other guys too.. that relationship is broken already.
 

ph40

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When you are in doubt like this it is always better to push forward.. her resistance/compliance will tell you where you are at. But I have to say.. with some girls who like me but are attached.. I don't mess around with them. I don't want peoples misery on my hand.. especially when they are people I care about/symnpathize. I know a lot of people lack restraint.. just today a girl who is married but she cant fight nature as well as she should. Puts herself in my orbit.. keeps talking to me, but I dont want to hurt her situation.

BUT... if the girl is being agressive or very overt.. yeah she is just playing with fire and all bets are off.

Sure. You definitely have a moral dilemma on your hands if she actually *is* married and still interested. What do you think the chances are that she made it up on the spot because she doesn't want to go out with you, though?
 
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DarkKnight

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Sure. You definitely have a moral dilemma on your hands if she actually *is* married and still interested. What do you think the chances are that she made it up on the spot because she doesn't want to go out with you, though?
Dude if she says she is married she probably is. Otherwise it would be a boyfriend excuse which is more common. A lot of times IOI's are unconscious.. girls cant resist looking at you, hovering around you. They ofcourse love the attention which a lot of times are being given free by average joes... That is "innocent enough" for them to indulge for. Perhaps she didnt expect you to escalate? a lot of guys chicken out with escalating especially during daygame..

That is why we test for compliance.
 

Fuck This

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Then her 6 ft 4 husband who is over in the Microbrew aisle comes along and tells you "she said she's married asshole...."

Take a fucking hint.
 

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Let's say that you are talking to a woman who has shown you IOIs - a glance, lingering near you, etc. She seems interested in you, and eventually you're making some small-talk with her, and when you go to suggest seeing her somewhere else (setting up a date), she quickly says, exactly: "I would... but I'm married."

Let's say this is in a public area like a coffee shop or a grocery store, during day game. So definitely IOIs, definitely had some rapport, not a lengthy conversation, but she quickly brings it up.

I've read from some PUA sites that if she's actually married and wiling to cheat on her husband with you, that you usually won't hear about her husband until after you've had sex or right about the time you're going to have sex. So if she quickly brings it up? How do you read this situation and what would you do as a skilled seducer? Take it as a challenge? See it as a "white lie?" As the truth and plow on? Or as a glaring sign of *disinterest* and move on? Or something else?

Read this post applies to married women: https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/the-3-i-have-a-boyfriend-scenarios.24645/
 
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