Let’s say both , what would you say for each of those situations
Let me start by mentioning that I am an empath to the point that it sometimes has hurt my game (don't be fooled by the name HeartRipper . Lol). However, the reality of life is that sometimes you cannot help everyone. And yet emotion (from a lay or relationship, whatever) will drive you to naturally want to support this girl (emotionally or financially or both) since you like her especially if you are an empath like me, and this can complicate things if you are not emotionally available.
I don't think you should feel obligated to support this girl financially though, because you just met her and even if you could help, it's best to stay away from it. If you can help in other ways, like recommending a good doctor you know, then do it because it is a humane thing to do...just like you would for a friend. But financially is a no-no (of course it also depends) even if you are willing to become this girl's provider later.
So, my short answer is...IT DEPENDS.
It depends on whether you want to lay her or are immediately considering her for a relationship, whether you are available /able to support the girl emotionally and on how mature the girl is in terms of life (inner maturity) and seduction experience.
Scenario #1: You want to lay her, and you are unable/unavailable to support her emotionally
Here, when deep diving and this comes up, you can quickly move to other things and avoid all the negative energy before she gets too deep into it. Too much and it can even mess with the seduction. Talk about other things and if this constantly comes up again, then you know it has a big role in her life right now. If you are not yet really experienced, it's really easy to screw this up and not know how to fix it. The easier this is to leave and avoid hurting the girl...there's plenty of girls. However, if your calibration reads that giving this girl a night of her life might do some good in her life right now, then go for it amigo.
Scenario #2: You want to lay her, and you are able/available to support her emotionally
Then you're probably comfortable with the idea of becoming her boyfriend. Here, find out about what her situation is via deep diving and see how you can help. When you meet, make an effort to find out how she is doing by asking her how the situation is so far. Still focus on getting the girl to bed and the stick around to listen to her when she needs you. If you can recommend something, that would be awesome.
Note that it is also easy to get fooled and stick around because you want to help the girl. You can notice this if whenever you meet, all you talk about is the difficulty she is facing.
Another thing here is that you can help the girl to take her mind off it by providing varying experiences whenever she is with you (sexually especially).
Scenario #3: How well the girl has it together (what I call maturity)
Some girls know how the world works and know that just because she sleeps with you, you don't have to owe her anything. Proceed with caution still because despite maturity, girls will be girls. She may still get hurt if she opened up to you about her difficult life and you simply fucked and left. Not that there is anything morally wrong with that but I always make an effort to think about what the other party will feel.
I have been in situations with girls who have issues back home but they were ongoing and not immediate (like a terminal illness), so it simply wasn't an issue for my seduction.
However, I have a friend who was inexperienced (a chode really) who decided to go all out and include his family to help the girl's family with a problem they had. And I can tell you, this did not end well. Especially because he had not handled the seduction well, the girl even lost further respect for him and went off with another dude.
My point is depending on the situation and your level of experience, this is not supposed to be a deal-breaker but rather proceed with caution as it is easy to fuck up a seduction with a girl that's going through some things.
-HeartRipper
