After i asked her for a date and she said yes, she then said "i know what you want better than any guy ive met.. Maybe because we both make eye contact". I responded with "so im easy then!?" While laughing. This same girl hasnt responded called me since i got here number(3 days ago).
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MichaelK,
She's probably experience, and socially attuned. You should not have laugh though. It's a cue, telling her that you might be too "playerish" or you are just, inexperienced.
I suggest giving her a text, telling her that you were just making things cheesy the other day, and you think she's cute and would like to go out with her.
It might work.
Zac
MichaelK said:
She's probably experience, and socially attuned. You should not have laugh though. It's a cue, telling her that you might be too "playerish" or you are just, inexperienced.
I suggest giving her a text, telling her that you were just making things cheesy the other day, and you think she's cute and would like to go out with her.
It might work.
Zac
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Hey MK,
Personally, I wouldn't even bother trying to justify what you said to her previously. It would make it sound like you regretted sending that text, and she'll pick up on it. I would just text her for a date and completely ignore her comments.
This would be my advice. =)
- Franco
Personally, I wouldn't even bother trying to justify what you said to her previously. It would make it sound like you regretted sending that text, and she'll pick up on it. I would just text her for a date and completely ignore her comments.
This would be my advice. =)
- Franco
Franco said:
Hi Franco,
This was when i asked her out in person, i told her to call me on her schedule and she never did(4 days later). The sad thing is she knows im not experienced and she is so she's just trying to get me in her friend zone by avoiding the date. We agreed yesterday for a date tonight, 1 hour before date i went and confirmed the date and she says "im really sick, we'll have time to hangout another time". I just said "alright" with unhappy face and walked off(i lost it there, i know i shouldve been more assertive but i couldnt bring myself to do it). But this is a good lesson for me, she's a model so probably out of my league now but i promise she will regret it later, this moment of rejection is so saddening but also very motivating as well. Thank you for your advice Franco, i think ill let this one go an just learn from it.
