What Exes taught you the most?

[Fuck This]

What Exes taught you the most? Every relationship has a lesson. What are your most memorable?

 

[Seppuku]

* You need to make sure that she keeps investing. Never make it too easy for her.
* Her tests never end. Don't bring your guard down. It can be quite subtle...
* She's not here for moral support when you're facing some life shit. Her role is essentially to create and nurture life. You deal with your shit alone... Ignore this at your own risks.

Curious to read your bullet points, FT...

Seppuku

 

[trashKENNUT]

FT,

* She's not here for moral support when you're facing some life shit. Her role is essentially to create and nurture life. You deal with your shit alone... Ignore this at your own risks.

oh yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssssssssssssss.

So why marry women? dear society. I am not saying this as a hate thing.
I cannot tell you how i have seen this in real life. Think of women as employees. The fuck up employee. LOLX

Zac

 

[NealIRC]

* She's not here for moral support when you're facing some life shit. Her role is essentially to create and nurture life. You deal with your shit alone... Ignore this at your own risks.

Well, this brings up a good topic. Does anyone had any relationships where they can go to their girls for moral support?

However.

What would be an example of good moral support among Whites?
It can't be stuff like complaining about the weather or medical condition. If you have a genetic disorder, that's something you've had with a girl since day 1.

Among Hispanic and Black people are getting arrested or getting in trouble with the law, or where the government squeezes you to snitch on others. Crime.

So it's hard to come up with a good example of going to a girl for moral support.

And at the same time, do women even need men to go to for moral support?

 

[Seppuku]

So why marry women? dear society. I am not saying this as a hate thing.

Well, as a divorced guy I'm not the most outspoken advocate of marriage, especially the contractual aspect of things. This is, in my opinion, way too biased in favor of women - at least in the western world. If you plan to have some children some time in your life though, you may consider settling with a woman, marriage or not marriage. However if you don't want children, I agree it's a whole different story . What benefits women and society is not necessarily what benefits the man!

So it's hard to come up with a good example of going to a girl for moral support.

Like you're husband and wife, and you see her as your partner in life. You just got some crap in your way at the office today, and you share the story with her. It's nice to have someone to vent about the crap, it helps release the stress. Well, she actually *may* listen to you, and even give you a little comfort (or not). But what this does, over the years, is to erode the respect she has for you. And one day, she starts adding drama and more crap, on top of your worries.

And at the same time, do women even need men to go to for moral support?

Oh yes, all the time. They will dump their own worries on your shoulders and make you feel responsible for these, with no consideration for your emotions. She will share with you all her emotional swings. When you're not used to this, it will be very taxing emotionally. Welcome to the roller-coaster!

You guys will discover this by yourself one day. I'm talking about a fifteen years relationship, not a two months girlfriend. Good luck! I'm glad I'm past that.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Seppuku,

I learn something every guy should know. but ultimately, every guy must see that they themselves doing it, fitting in the narrative of society serving themselves.

"The world has to go on" analogy.
What does this mean, Zac? One might ask.

It means that we all do camaraderie and that we are friendly but when there is a girl entering the vicinity, there's still camaraderie but it's fake.

I see this delusion gets played higher with elite level guys. I talk with Chase about this awhile back. Hard to explain it but it is very real

Zac

 

[NealIRC]

So it's hard to come up with a good example of going to a girl for moral support.

I meant a_good_example.

Crap on the way to the office?
Bad weather?

I'm looking for good examples of going to women for moral support.

Probably crime and biological stuff like cancer.