What girl getting stuffs are you working on at the moment?

[Regal Tiger]

Truth be told I wasn't sure where to put this. But since I meant it in a girl getting way I decided against lifestyle. If it's wrong then my bad, if it can be moved then go ahead (I don't think I can do that?)


Anywhoo, I'm working on THE walk
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-h ... women-nuts

As long as I remind myself about it, then I can do it just fine for a while. It's just not completely unconscious at the moment and that's what I'm aiming for so I don't walk all dumpy and then think "What are you doing!?" and then change it so I probably look a little awkward by anyone watching. Kinda feel like one of those evolution memes when I change over haha.


And the second thing that I'm working on is my voice:
http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/11/1 ... ine-voice/

I can find my resonance fairly easily and maintain it but I've noticed that I have trouble projecting properly. I'm either too soft or "why are you yelling, man?"
"I didn't think that I was.... "


I feel like I'm harping on the whole walking and posture thing a little too much but I really have noticed a lot of differences afterwards at least in initial impressions since changing it

Voice is something I decided last night so.... who knows how that'll work out.

Still trying to remember fashion stuffs.


And I wanted to try to get into better situational awareness. This was brought to my attention and this is something that I could likely benefit from a lot. Because I do tend to get some blinders on and don't notice even basic things about how someone is feeling in front of me. Though I notice a lot when I'm just people watching this part of me seems to shut off when I'm actually engaged with someone.



What are you currently working on to help with da womenz?

Doesn't have to be fundamentals, can be anything. I wanna know!

 

[foggy]

Anywhoo, I'm working on THE walk

niceee bro. i noticed when I was changing my walk I started getting MAD toe blisters! is this happening to you?

here's the infield stuff i'm working on now when day gaming:

- my strategy when talking to groups of 2 girls
- facial expressions: i'm experimenting with different facial expressions when opening
- my sexual vibe: talking slower and with a more flirty voice, using more pregnant pauses, etc.
- adjusting for attainability on the fly. this one is taking away a lot of my energy
- doing less chasing
- standing closer to girls while talking to them

There's a gazillion other things too but this is the gist of it. Nothing too interesting tbh. I'm really focussed on getting reference points right now.

 

[Regal Tiger]

niceee bro. i noticed when I was changing my walk I started getting MAD toe blisters! is this happening to you?

No, how are you walking with your feet though? I make sure to heel-to-toe it and I haven't had any problems. Though this primarily comes from a running and marching band background so that parts ingrained in me.

here's the infield stuff i'm working on now when day gaming:

- my strategy when talking to groups of 2 girls
- facial expressions: i'm experimenting with different facial expressions when opening
- my sexual vibe: talking slower and with a more flirty voice, using more pregnant pauses, etc.
- adjusting for attainability on the fly. this one is taking away a lot of my energy
- doing less chasing
- standing closer to girls while talking to them

There's a gazillion other things too but this is the gist of it. Nothing too interesting tbh. I'm really focussed on getting reference points right now.

Groovy dude! How's it going for you so far?

 

[Regal Tiger]

Still working on the voice but I feel like I have the walk down 85-90% of the time.

So now, after reading Hector's newest article https://www.girlschase.com/content/becom ... look-beast I am inspired to work on eye contact now.

Though I'm in a bit of a life pickle so for actual results I'll have to wait to put it all into use lol. But the greatest thing about fundamentals? You can practice them in your home with nobody around (looking at you, you god damned sexy beast of a man in the mirror)


Articles about Eye Contact:
1. https://www.girlschase.com/content/eye-contact-flirting => some basics about eye contact

2. https://www.girlschase.com/content/eyes-draw => specific circumstances when you want a woman to approach you

My absolute favorite, an oldie but a goodie:
3. https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-c ... d-turn-her => I have used this a lot since reading about it, and I can definitely confirm that it works. The slow check out; I can't think of one single time that I moved my eyes back up after checking a woman out to find anything but a smiling face waiting for me. Though I've done this a lot, I don't do this enough

4. https://www.girlschase.com/content/look- ... t-piercing
Wouldn't be complete without the look. The serious look that tells people you mean business. Either for sex or for a beating some ass. Or as Hector might agree with; something carnal and manly. So basically beating some ass one way or another *raises eyebrow*


So those are the articles that I'll be following and paying attention to whilst practicing my eye contact. Though for results it'll probably be a while

 

[lostnumber]

Regal, do you have any video clips of people you use as models for a sexy walk? I've read those articles and its never clicked for me. Im a little crooked and have some awkward biomechanics

The three things I've put most of my time into over the past year or so are conversational abilities, fashion, and online game.

The next thing I've been trying to improve is my social skills in group settings. I've gotten very good at the 1:1 date setup where I have everything planned and prepared beforehand, but I'd like to become better at interacting with groups of people and handling more spontaneous social encounters.

I have a lot of social capital at work because I'm damn good at my job, and I get a lot of dates and get laid a lot because of my online dating skills, but I'm probably intermediate at absolute best in social circle or party settings, which I'd like to improve.

 

[Regal Tiger]

Regal, do you have any video clips of people you use as models for a sexy walk? I've read those articles and its never clicked for me. Im a little crooked and have some awkward biomechanics

I personally don't, but here are some videos as well as my commentary about them to give you an idea of what I'm going for in my head.

Items 1 and 2 are more tip-like videos whereas 3 and 4 are example videos. Number 4's only ten seconds long.

1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1BKNQPv9fw8
Yes. All kinda yes. Since you're also a little over the top you'll probably really like this guy. I like a lot of his stuff in general

2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nAUWXbNj1_Q
I find him a little annoying but he does have some tips and a few examples of what he's talking about, particularly the shoulder swagger
Also, I have no idea if this guys other stuff is worth anything, I only watched this single video
One thing that he kind of dipped into but didn't really go into was this though: slowness. Not just with your walk but with your EVERYTHING. So that includes your head and eyes. They move slowly too.

3. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75aX9mlipiY
This isn't a tips video it's as an example video. So ignore what he does with his face and head, I think he whips it around a little too quickly. But the walk itself is pretty solid, though I like to do a little more shoulder swagger

4. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=djLae_tjlQ4
Ten second clip, and I think he walks a little fast, but not bad as an example only

The three things I've put most of my time into over the past year or so are conversational abilities, fashion, and online game.

What kinda fashion places are you going to/getting info from? I've been using SexyStyleForJoe and AlphaM and I like them overall, but I'm too poor to buy new clothes so have to make due lol.

The next thing I've been trying to improve is my social skills in group settings. I've gotten very good at the 1:1 date setup where I have everything planned and prepared beforehand, but I'd like to become better at interacting with groups of people and handling more spontaneous social encounters.

Are we the same person?

I have a lot of social capital at work because I'm damn good at my job, and I get a lot of dates and get laid a lot because of my online dating skills, but I'm probably intermediate at absolute best in social circle or party settings, which I'd like to improve.

Guess not lol

Though I know your pain with social settings. When I find myself in group settings I usually just kinda play the quiet game and just observe/make quick witty jokes where appropriate. Unless I can find myself in a mini-isolation moment. The important thing for me is to still have big body language and not appear uncomfortable.

So going to dancing events work because you're automatically isolated for those few minutes, works out quite nicely.

Or if I can perform. I'm a showoff haha.

 

[lostnumber]

What kinda fashion places are you going to/getting info from? I've been using SexyStyleForJoe and AlphaM and I like them overall, but I'm too poor to buy new clothes so have to make due lol.

You aren't going to like the answer, haha. AlphaM is a fantastic resource for general style information

But as far as my clothes? I get most of them custom made. I'm 6'4 with broad shoulders and a tiny waist so finding clothes that fit me off the rack is virtually impossible.

 

[Regal Tiger]

You aren't going to like the answer, haha. AlphaM is a fantastic resource for general style information

But as far as my clothes? I get most of them custom made. I'm 6'4 with broad shoulders and a tiny waist so finding clothes that fit me off the rack is virtually impossible.

I wouldn't be so sure.... I'm a little chubbier than I would like so I don't have a tiny waist, but also very broad shouldered and about 6'2-6'4 ish. So actually, where you get your clothes from might come in handy down the road (I can never get anything to fit the length of my arms right no matter how hard I try, unless I go to the baggy racks) but what I meant was fashion advice/information from. I've only got two-three that I listen to. Would like more recommendations iffin's ya don't mind


Are you friggin sure we aren't the same person?? Lmao same kinda texting style, preferring online game (though because of my year's hiatus you're likely a little further along than me) and even a bigger guy. Other than the whole success part, you're just a tad further than me as well

How old are you? Don't say 25 haha

Also if you don't mind; what kinda personal style do you have? If you know any of Darius' information the elegant-edgy is where I'd like to be at, but have a supreme fondness for ripped jeans and classy upperbody (waistcoats are supreme) lol

 

[lostnumber]

You aren't going to like the answer, haha. AlphaM is a fantastic resource for general style information

But as far as my clothes? I get most of them custom made. I'm 6'4 with broad shoulders and a tiny waist so finding clothes that fit me off the rack is virtually impossible.

I wouldn't be so sure.... I'm a little chubbier than I would like so I don't have a tiny waist, but also very broad shouldered and about 6'2-6'4 ish. So actually, where you get your clothes from might come in handy down the road (I can never get anything to fit the length of my arms right no matter how hard I try, unless I go to the baggy racks) but what I meant was fashion advice/information from. I've only got two-three that I listen to. Would like more recommendations iffin's ya don't mind


Are you friggin sure we aren't the same person?? Lmao same kinda texting style, preferring online game (though because of my year's hiatus you're likely a little further along than me) and even a bigger guy. Other than the whole success part, you're just a tad further than me as well

How old are you? Don't say 25 haha

Also if you don't mind; what kinda personal style do you have? If you know any of Darius' information the elegant-edgy is where I'd like to be at, but have a supreme fondness for ripped jeans and classy upperbody (waistcoats are supreme) lol

Heh, I'm 27 going on 28 and I probably made the biggest gains of my life in the past two years. I doubt I was any further along than you at 25

I'm more of a sophisticated gentleman when it comes to fashion. I have some leather jackets (including a very nice one I got in Florence) and jewelery and such, and I'll take the dress shirt down an extra button often, but a lot of times I'm going with a vest, blazer, trousers and a tie. I did a pre-date video the other day that I'm considering posting, if I can figure out how (I'm an old man who doesn't understand technology). That would give you some context

Almost all of my clothes are custom through a company called Tom James. In the high end clothes community they are frowned upon for having an unnecessary salesperson between you and the tailor, but we are talking $800 suits vs $2000+ if you really want to get into the scene. Someday when I've really made it I'll go talk to the tailor Connor McGregor uses, but for now I've found something that works haha.

Its far better quality than you can find in a typical department store, often of comparable price, and you get it custom-made and fit to your specific measurements. Most of my shirts are monogrammed, colored button holes, etc. I'm working on slowly filling out my arsenal of suits and blazers so that I have various options to mix and match. I generally disdain an actual suit as being too boring, so I like getting suits and interchanging the various parts. I'll also rock blazers or vests with dark jeans

If/when you get back to a more stable situation I highly recommend checking them out. Its typically half up front and half on delivery, and they do payment plans too, so if you have a job even if you are not making very much you'd be able to get something nice

 

[Regal Tiger]

Heh, I'm 27 going on 28 and I probably made the biggest gains of my life in the past two years. I doubt I was any further along than you at 25

I'm more of a sophisticated gentleman when it comes to fashion. I have some leather jackets (including a very nice one I got in Florence) and jewelery and such, and I'll take the dress shirt down an extra button often, but a lot of times I'm going with a vest, blazer, trousers and a tie. I did a pre-date video the other day that I'm considering posting, if I can figure out how (I'm an old man who doesn't understand technology). That would give you some context

Groovy! I'm kinda picturing you as a Patrick Jane right now... except add in a tie. And much younger than both the character and the actor Simon Baker

Almost all of my clothes are custom through a company called Tom James. In the high end clothes community they are frowned upon for having an unnecessary salesperson between you and the tailor, but we are talking $800 suits vs $2000+ if you really want to get into the scene. Someday when I've really made it I'll go talk to the tailor Connor McGregor uses, but for now I've found something that works haha.

Its far better quality than you can find in a typical department store, often of comparable price, and you get it custom-made and fit to your specific measurements. Most of my shirts are monogrammed, colored button holes, etc. I'm working on slowly filling out my arsenal of suits and blazers so that I have various options to mix and match. I generally disdain an actual suit as being too boring, so I like getting suits and interchanging the various parts. I'll also rock blazers or vests with dark jeans

If/when you get back to a more stable situation I highly recommend checking them out. Its typically half up front and half on delivery, and they do payment plans too, so if you have a job even if you are not making very much you'd be able to get something nice

Awesomesauce! Thanks for the recommendation!