What girls are facing, years later...

[trashKENNUT]

Yes...

IT is unfair, that most girls have the unfair advantage of choosing their partners when they are 14 to 55 at the very most (if they good at keeping their youth, should be higher, but most are not.) but here's to consider what i have seen.

1)Old women i meet and i mean Muslim women, She ask me what time it is and went full auto rejection (She made it as if like i wasn't even there to respond to her in the first place). This is because i didn't at least, talk to her..... and chat with her to make her feel wanted, or at the very least, relatable.

2)I was at the bus stop, and there was an old lady sitting nearby. I look at her. There was a disappointment in her face. She was looking down. I must imagine that she must be thinking how when she was young and all guys were chasing her and she have "resources". Now she's just another person......

3)My aunties sometimes mention and laugh at how they are not worth every penny now and that nobody wants them even if they got kidnapped and get sold. Yes they laugh, but there's also abit of that sadness, that looking down.

I don't want people to empathize. It's like asking the middle class to donate money even when they have done it, and they (middle class) need help as well. But just consider, at the very least, to come and sit with me at this mountainous view and see what i have seen.

Zac

 

[Drck]

Re: Just three story to share. Girls have super advantage from 14 to 55 (at most

You seem to be depressed Zac. Remember, it is about Beliefs. Beliefs are like glasses, you view the World through those glasses...


Belief: IT is unfair, that most girls have the unfair advantage of choosing their partners when they are 14 to 55 at the very most (if they good at keeping their youth, should be higher, but most are not.) but here's to consider what i have seen.
>>>> Alternate Belief: In Nature, mostly females are choosing while males are “posing”, e.g. showing muscles and strength, showing dominance and so on, and based on that the female choses the strongest one. It is not fair or unfair, it is just Natural, that is how it is in Nature. However, it is females are desperate to mate, it is female’s biological drive to have offspring and family, it is female who is more equipped to have pleasure from sex... At certain age females will become desperate to have sex with males because they want babies. The problem with society is that we have many White Knights, many Nice Guys, many Weak and Supplicating Guys – and all these men are placing women on Pedestals, they make them feel like they are Princesses…. These males keep “posing” for them, protecting them, feel sorry for them, taking care of them… And this is the reason why many guys have such a hard time getting laid, females feel that they are the ones who are choosing because there are hundreds of men constantly posting for them…. On the other hand, if you reverse this White Knight and Nice Guys crap, if you knock them off that fucking pedestal, if you stop “posing” for them and work on being The Man instead - the situation suddenly changes. Now you are the one who they will be “posing” to, now you are the one who they will seek to mate with… It is shocking revelation, once you put the old glasses down and put on these new ones the whole World will change in front of your eyes…

Belief: 1)Old women i meet and i mean Muslim women, She ask me what time it is and went full auto rejection (She made it as if like i wasn't even there to respond to her in the first place). This is because i didn't at least, talk to her..... and chat with her to make her feel wanted, or at the very least, relatable.
>>>> Alternate Belief: Not sure what is “old”. 55? Why would you want to seduce “old” woman at first place? She is also a Muslim, therefore very likely to be strictly religious. Most of the “old” ones already have their families anyway. Most likely she didn’t consider you her mate at first place, she just asked what time it is, maybe wanted to chat a little, and that it is. You are beating yourself up for something that doesn’t exist, that wouldn’t happen at first place, you are looking at her through your Seduction glasses… Put your seduction glasses on only once she is interested, otherwise see her as just a person…

Belief: 2)I was at the bus stop, and there was an old lady sitting nearby. I look at her. There was a disappointment in her face. She was looking down. I must imagine that she must be thinking how when she was young and all guys were chasing her and she have "resources". Now she's just another person......
>>>> Alternate Belief: What if she was disappointed about something or somebody else? You don’t really know what she was thinking, you are only imagining what she could be thinking… Maybe she didn’t think about seduction at all, but you were imagining the seduction because you had your seduction glasses on…

Belief: 3)My aunties sometimes mention and laugh at how they are not worth every penny now and that nobody wants them even if they got kidnapped and get sold. Yes they laugh, but there's also abit of that sadness, that looking down.
>>>> Alternate Belief: Ok, maybe your aunties had a good time when they were younger, and they laugh at it because it was great. Now they are older, and they are no longer interested in seduction… Maybe it is sad, maybe it is unfair, maybe it is just life… To some of us, Life just happens

 

[trashKENNUT]

Re: Just three story to share. Girls have super advantage from 14 to 55 (at most

Drck,

Woah.... Why you suddenly attack me like that? I am writing because recently, a few guys on Girlschase wrote that they are depressed because girls have advantage. Yes, i do agree with them.

I empathize with them but i am not going to show empathy or "oh that's sad" because that's an insult to them. I understand what they write. But I want guys to consider what girls are facing, with this post. I want people to sit with me, and see what girls are facing.

(i just realize i didn't write the original post correctly! )

Zac

 

[Adamantimus]

Re: Just three story to share. Girls have super advantage from 14 to 55 (at most

Drck,

Woah.... Why you suddenly attack me like that? I am writing because recently, a few guys on Girlschase wrote that they are depressed because girls have advantage. Yes, i do agree with them.

I empathize with them but i am not going to show empathy or "oh that's sad" because that's an insult to them. I understand what they write. But I want guys to consider what girls are facing, with this post. I want people to sit with me, and see what girls are facing.

(i just realize i didn't write the original post correctly! )

Zac

What Drck might mean is that when you have negative thoughts, you tend to reflect them to your perceptions about the environment.

Just like an overly religious person might see demons where there is none, you see depressed people, when they might just be having a bad day.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Re: Just three story to share. Girls have super advantage from 14 to 55 (at most

Adamantimus,

What Drck might mean is that when you have negative thoughts, you tend to reflect them to your perceptions about the environment.

Just like an overly religious person might see demons where there is none, you see depressed people, when they might just be having a bad day.

True, but this is another topic by itself. I am sure you understand that.

There's grammar error. I wrote the article, by feeling the way that person feels. I probably get why Drck labelled me as "depressed". I guess the whole thing was written and given a bad vibe. but let's say if i was "depressed", i guess i been shoot down rather being relate to...

This is what most guys feel. Like a child whose parent doesn't listen. (We all sucks in relating to people, i guess.)

Zac