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Anonymous
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Hello,
I started talking to a girl I worked with. I was training to be a manager at a store several hours away. She and I would talk all the time and eventually it was brought to the attention of one of the trainers. He told me that I had to stay away. So for a bit I did, and explained why. I asked if she wanted my to give me her number. She did and we would text back and forth ask day every day. At one point during the training I stayed in a hotel and asked if she wanted to come over, she agreed and with some very light flirting, we slept together. She had work the next day so she couldn't stay. The next day she talked to me and said it was one of the best times she ever had, and I totally agree, it was amazing. We saw each other like that a few more times. I come to find out her roommate is someone that can never find out, judging and knows the right/wrong people to talk to, that would make life difficult. So we couldn't go to her place. There were still several times when the roommate wasn't there that we would get together for a few hours of sex. Moving forward a few weeks the friend goes out of town, I spend the whole weekend. She told me she loved me, something that we only flirted with saying to each other, and that she wanted to be with me. On the last day she was a little cold, but I thought she might be upset I was leaving. We stayed in a hotel one more time, everything seemed on point. We planned on two more major meetings before my training was over. One another hotel stay, and the other, our first "real date." She cancelled both, both the day of. The first saying it was just bad timing and the second because she was having some major personal health issues. As the last weeks went on, she pushed away and even began avoiding me. Now that I'm done training we talk only every few days, staying with phone calls, now to texts, and now only if I initiate. As you can imagine, I have fallen for this girl, and want to "get her back." Her job allows her to work from anywhere and I'm set up well enough I can see her when time allows. Any advice would be appreciated.
I started talking to a girl I worked with. I was training to be a manager at a store several hours away. She and I would talk all the time and eventually it was brought to the attention of one of the trainers. He told me that I had to stay away. So for a bit I did, and explained why. I asked if she wanted my to give me her number. She did and we would text back and forth ask day every day. At one point during the training I stayed in a hotel and asked if she wanted to come over, she agreed and with some very light flirting, we slept together. She had work the next day so she couldn't stay. The next day she talked to me and said it was one of the best times she ever had, and I totally agree, it was amazing. We saw each other like that a few more times. I come to find out her roommate is someone that can never find out, judging and knows the right/wrong people to talk to, that would make life difficult. So we couldn't go to her place. There were still several times when the roommate wasn't there that we would get together for a few hours of sex. Moving forward a few weeks the friend goes out of town, I spend the whole weekend. She told me she loved me, something that we only flirted with saying to each other, and that she wanted to be with me. On the last day she was a little cold, but I thought she might be upset I was leaving. We stayed in a hotel one more time, everything seemed on point. We planned on two more major meetings before my training was over. One another hotel stay, and the other, our first "real date." She cancelled both, both the day of. The first saying it was just bad timing and the second because she was having some major personal health issues. As the last weeks went on, she pushed away and even began avoiding me. Now that I'm done training we talk only every few days, staying with phone calls, now to texts, and now only if I initiate. As you can imagine, I have fallen for this girl, and want to "get her back." Her job allows her to work from anywhere and I'm set up well enough I can see her when time allows. Any advice would be appreciated.
