What if she wants to go out with friends

[kalyan]

I've had a few cases before when girls suggest they bring along their friends when I ask them out.
I know that mostly this is a bad sign, but not necessarily a lost case.
For example, this happened to me with a girl I met on tinder; I can't assume she views me as a friend that soon.
Anyways, whatever is on her mind, what's the best way to respond to this and tell her "let's be lovers first, then we'll see about friends"

 

[Seppuku]

Hey kalyan,

As a rule of thumb, and especially if you're new to seduction, you want to date on your terms, not hers. You can simply tell her no. By doing that, you're letting her know that you're ready to let her go. It is very attractive, for a woman, because you're a challenge.

Here I have a Lay Report where I initially rebuked a girl who wanted to bring up friends into our date: "No no, this is a date. You and me":
https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=13704

Note that after that I told her no, she kept coming back to me. Later on, I got a first short date with her, followed by a second date at my place, where things happened. She was so excited that she was the one escalating me. Girls are not used to guys saying no. If you're at the early stages of learning, this is the route I would recommend.

When you're more advanced, you can actually turn it to your advantage. They are two girls, right? They're safe.. So you will do the first date directly to your place, and get very physical with your girl, and even better, with both. The next date will then be a piece of cake, because she already knows your place and feel familiar with it, you got pre-selection from the girl's girlfriend, and already got her physically comfortable. My latest LR is a perfect example:
https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=14119

Only try this if you're confident enough to get two girls under control... But when you're there, it's a lot of fun!

Cheers,
Seppuku

 

[Kaelos]

I've had a few cases before when girls suggest they bring along their friends when I ask them out.

Avoid group dates.

Read: Book Excerpts: Bad Dates You'll Want to Avoid

If you want to become her friend, feel free to join her when she invites you to group activities, or to agree if she asks to bring a friend along. Otherwise, keep it strictly one-on-one. No exceptions. You don’t want to meet her friends until you’ve been dating her and sleeping with her for a little while (or you may not want to meet them at all, period, unless you decide to go the traditional boyfriend / husband route) – certainly not beforehand. Friends will slow everything down for you – once her friends know you, they’ll want to know how it’s going with you, and she’ll be pressured by them not to move too quickly with you. Avoid the friends at all costs before you get together with a girl. Basically, keep it one-on-one, keep it casual, and have your girl at your place as soon as possible so things can proceed smoothly. Cut out anything that draws things out unnecessarily – you want you meets to be fun, exciting, enjoyable, and efficient. You’re a busy man with lots going on so keep things simple and fast.