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So I used to joke around with myself that my type is "girls with boyfriends" because so often I will meet an attractive girl whom I am into, whom often is showing signs of being into in me as well.
Before GirlsChase, I would try to rationalize it as, these girls just get scooped up quicker because they are attractive and cool.
After, I would say these girls want a break from their vanilla boyfriend and get a quick piece of me, whom has labored away at his fundamentals and sexy vibe and juicy fruits of this labor bear.
My question is this: Am I doing something to attract girls with boyfriends specifically? What can I do to switch gears and direct my magnetic powers to single girls??
Read on for examples of situations...
Last night I was at a concert where my friends band was performing, I was helping out backstage with various things. See a sexy girl and make mental note to self to talk to her.
Later on, I get a chance when I am watching the merchandise stand. My A game is on point and the chemistry is great and she is even sexier up close. There is 100% no need for her to sit behind the table with me and stays even after everyone leaves, I notice her watching me with interest and witty remarks, and she even offers to buy me a drink when she leaves to the bar for hers.
When she gets back she mentions her BF "Peter" will get mad if he catches her drinking. Peter is a fellow musician and very good friend of mine and I put the breaks on myself as soon as heard this. Peter is also a huge ex-army dude with an anger issue, not to mention having biceps the size of my head. Breaks to the floor.
There are some other girlfriends of my friends who are attractive and seem to be interested in me as well. Often when I talk with single girls, the mutual attraction is just not there! Especially compared to the instances with girls with boyfriends and the low success rate I have with girls whom rarely date. What is going on?!
*note* Being my own devils advocate, I have not hooked up with many of these girls with boyfriends because many times the BF's are my close friends! So its hard to say that the interest would have let somewhere if I had just been uncaring of the poor BFs.
Also the way I write this it sounds almost like I get off from girls having boyfriends and the excitement of doing it in secret. I actually see it as a big inconvenience. I am hoping this thread will help me change my ideal type from "girls with boyfriends" to "single girls"
Another instance, I was shooting a video for my own band at the actresses' BF's apartment. After the shoot some of us get food together including the actress. She and I are vibe-ing in that "own little bubble" way at times. She mentions to someone else how she wishes her boyfriend would stop texting her for a few months while looking at me... She and I bite a jalapeno pepper straight and I say I actually like it. She remarks I must be into bondage and what not, pepper in the eyes and shit. (lol) Eye contact here is like electrical bolts between us.
Help me stop being a girlfriend thief!
Before GirlsChase, I would try to rationalize it as, these girls just get scooped up quicker because they are attractive and cool.
After, I would say these girls want a break from their vanilla boyfriend and get a quick piece of me, whom has labored away at his fundamentals and sexy vibe and juicy fruits of this labor bear.
My question is this: Am I doing something to attract girls with boyfriends specifically? What can I do to switch gears and direct my magnetic powers to single girls??
Read on for examples of situations...
Last night I was at a concert where my friends band was performing, I was helping out backstage with various things. See a sexy girl and make mental note to self to talk to her.
Later on, I get a chance when I am watching the merchandise stand. My A game is on point and the chemistry is great and she is even sexier up close. There is 100% no need for her to sit behind the table with me and stays even after everyone leaves, I notice her watching me with interest and witty remarks, and she even offers to buy me a drink when she leaves to the bar for hers.
When she gets back she mentions her BF "Peter" will get mad if he catches her drinking. Peter is a fellow musician and very good friend of mine and I put the breaks on myself as soon as heard this. Peter is also a huge ex-army dude with an anger issue, not to mention having biceps the size of my head. Breaks to the floor.
There are some other girlfriends of my friends who are attractive and seem to be interested in me as well. Often when I talk with single girls, the mutual attraction is just not there! Especially compared to the instances with girls with boyfriends and the low success rate I have with girls whom rarely date. What is going on?!
*note* Being my own devils advocate, I have not hooked up with many of these girls with boyfriends because many times the BF's are my close friends! So its hard to say that the interest would have let somewhere if I had just been uncaring of the poor BFs.
Also the way I write this it sounds almost like I get off from girls having boyfriends and the excitement of doing it in secret. I actually see it as a big inconvenience. I am hoping this thread will help me change my ideal type from "girls with boyfriends" to "single girls"
Another instance, I was shooting a video for my own band at the actresses' BF's apartment. After the shoot some of us get food together including the actress. She and I are vibe-ing in that "own little bubble" way at times. She mentions to someone else how she wishes her boyfriend would stop texting her for a few months while looking at me... She and I bite a jalapeno pepper straight and I say I actually like it. She remarks I must be into bondage and what not, pepper in the eyes and shit. (lol) Eye contact here is like electrical bolts between us.
Help me stop being a girlfriend thief!
