What is Going on

[ramshead]

Me and a co-worker have been going out for a few months. This past thursday we went out for food and drinks after work. When we left the bar we found an alley to fuck. But this time the girl didnt want to have sex and she told me she has a good time with me but we cant always have sex at the end of a date. I ignored her comment and was kissing her neck. She then said Im going to scream for help. So I stopped and drove her to her car. She wanted to play her music but I took it off and played the music I like. When we got to her car, she said we can still go out but only as friends and coworker. I said

Me - If thats what you want its fine but I dont have girls as only friends
Her - Well I can be your first female friend
Me - Trust me you wont

So she got out and I took off. The next morning at the parking lot we saw each other but I didnt say hi just walked as normal. During the day I treated her as I would any co-worker not my usual flirty way with her. We then we ran into each other in the bending machine. She asked me If I was Mad and I said no and took off.

So today Saturday. She texted a pic of her drinking a beer with her girlfriend. Which I completely ignored. Know she called my cell phone 5 times once every hour and half. I have not picked up any single call. What should I do. I want to show her that her comment on thursday is not cool. Should I continue Ignoring her until we see each other at work on Monday or continue ignoring for a week and then act like nothing happend.

Any suggestions from any guys on how I should Handle this.

 

[Smurf]

Oh lord.

I think I need to get some more background information to accurately assess this. If you could that would be awesome. Like are you guys dating? Have you always had sex after dates? Do your coworkers know you're dating? How many dates have you had? There's so many variables I can't get a good read into what's going on.

 

[ramshead]

Jake D

To answer your question I started working in the office in June and she started in Mid August. I asked her out for some drinks in the start of September. We had sex the first night out and she gave me a call the next day to have sex. We have been going out weekly ever since and always have sex after. I am having sex with other girls in the office but no one knows im talking to anyone. The older ladys always try to say I should date some of the girls and sometimes they tell the girls im already fucking and we laugh later, so I talk to everyone the same at work so not to make it odvious. Ive had issues with some of the girls but nothing major. So this girl after a month didnt want me to think of her as a slut and I played off and she has tested me with not replying to my texts or canceling with out even telling me. 2 weeks ago she finally introduced me to one of her friends. Last week we went on road trip and her friend wanted to tag along and my girl couldnt say no because that road trip was meant for them but her friend had canceled because they didnt give her time of at work but they finally did. So all 3 of us shared a room. Thats the first weekend we dont have sex and we spent so much time together, it was fun but no sex at night because her friend slept in our room. Her friend kept saying I was an asshole because Im an Aries and that all aries are assholes. But when we got back in town her friend even said your are new best friend. I think her friend has something to do with it but im not sure,

I hope this helps PS she has literraly called me 2 more times since I posted but I have not answered.

 

[Smurf]

I think she's playing mad games trying to get you to commit to more than just sex. If you wanted to play it safe you could just slowly relegate her back to the friend zone. I think that's the best course of action in terms of keeping your work environment sane. You could just answer her and ask her what's genuinely going on, which could lead to a more honest form of communication.

Sorry I didn't respond earlier I was fucked in half drunk last night haha.

Jake.

 

[ramshead]

its cool yeah thats what i was assuming but wasnt sure. She didnt text or call me today. Ill treat her normal tomorrow and see what happends in a way it was a soft next.