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What Is The Most Efficient Way To Learn Seduction In 2019?

Cody Lyans

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Fastest way to improve is to remove critical flaws, so that you never sabotage yourself.
So for example you have to fix your mentality: not bitter, jealous, possessive, temperamental, rude, passive, stingy, mommas boy, slow on the uptake, expecting too much, prudish etc.
Then you need to show sexual awareness ability to be discreet, read between the lines, and be positive in all situations and patience. Once you have removed those errors you will catch all low hanging fruit with no effort or skill required. It's the fastest by far
 

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Fastest way to improve is to remove critical flaws, so that you never sabotage yourself.
So for example you have to fix your mentality: not bitter, jealous, possessive, temperamental, rude, passive, stingy, mommas boy, slow on the uptake, expecting too much, prudish etc.
Then you need to show sexual awareness ability to be discreet, read between the lines, and be positive in all situations and patience. Once you have removed those errors you will catch all low hanging fruit with no effort or skill required. It's the fastest by far

can you please explain some practical steps to accomplish the above as quickly as possible?
 

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These days I would venture to say that good photos on dating apps are almost the most transforming thing you can do to better your results.

what would your answer be if for some reason online dating was not an option?
 

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can you please explain some practical steps to accomplish the above as quickly as possible?
What mentality cue do you struggle with most? Right them down in a journal, look them up on Google. Or better in girls chase. Note the key changes required for each one, and start measuring your responses to situations. Mentality is easy to fix yourself.

Next sexual awareness is easy to communicate with a very low tone of voice with a smile. So check out tov and how to create a devilish yet playful eye contact

Tip head forward, look up, relax lower eyelids and cheeks. Smile with outsides of eyes and in your voice, half disbelief and half of course
 

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What mentality cue do you struggle with most? Right them down in a journal, look them up on Google. Or better in girls chase. Note the key changes required for each one, and start measuring your responses to situations. Mentality is easy to fix yourself.

Next sexual awareness is easy to communicate with a very low tone of voice with a smile. So check out tov and how to create a devilish yet playful eye contact

Tip head forward, look up, relax lower eyelids and cheeks. Smile with outsides of eyes and in your voice, half disbelief and half of course

What mentality cue do you struggle with most? Right them down in a journal, look them up on Google. Or better in girls chase. Note the key changes required for each one, and start measuring your responses to situations. Mentality is easy to fix yourself.

I guess being slow on the uptake would be my biggest problem since i struggle to approach even the girls who give me clear approach invitations.

is that what you mean by being slow on the uptake? failing to respond to signals girls send?


Next sexual awareness is easy to communicate with a very low tone of voice with a smile. So check out tov and how to create a devilish yet playful eye contact

who or what is tov?

and what is your definition of sexual awareness?

what does it mean to be sexually aware?

also, in what context does this apply? nightgame? daygame? or its something that should be done by default in all situations?

also, are there any practical steps in the real physical world that i can take to achieve whatever it is you are talking about?

meaning are there actions i can take in the physical world (not in my mind) that can achieve what you are referring to?


Tip head forward, look up, relax lower eyelids and cheeks. Smile with outsides of eyes and in your voice, half disbelief and half of course
 
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What mentality cue do you struggle with most? Right them down in a journal, look them up on Google. Or better in girls chase. Note the key changes required for each one, and start measuring your responses to situations. Mentality is easy to fix yourself.

I guess being slow on the uptake would be my biggest problem since i struggle to approach even the girls who give me clear approach invitations.

is that what you mean by being slow on the uptake? failing to respond to signals girls send?


Next sexual awareness is easy to communicate with a very low tone of voice with a smile. So check out tov and how to create a devilish yet playful eye contact

who or what is tov?

and what is your definition of sexual awareness?

what does it mean to be sexually aware?

also, in what context does this apply? nightgame? daygame? or its something that should be done by default in all situations?

also, are there any practical steps in the real physical world that i can take to achieve whatever it is you are talking about?

meaning are there actions i can take in the physical world (not in my mind) that can achieve what you are referring to?


Tip head forward, look up, relax lower eyelids and cheeks. Smile with outsides of eyes and in your voice, half disbelief and half of course
Tov is short for tone of voice
Slow on the uptake means that you are not an active participant in knowing the context of the situation and expect others to point everything out. Attempt to solve things by understanding context quickly yourself.
But yes it also means not approaching or acting thick skulled like no info gets through to you even if blatantly obvious.
I gave some practical steps, try em first before asking for more. Otherwise me thinks thou dost protest too much and you are not serious about learning to progress quickly but rather want to progress painlessly those are two very different things

Be aware I said mentality is key to improving fast, this is how you react to EVERYTHING. In sales your mentality affects sales, same with women. Women react to your reactions so erase bad reactions by locating them, studying and fixing them.
I do know the answer you are looking for but I can't teach that over a post
 
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Tov is short for tone of voice
Slow on the uptake means that you are not an active participant in knowing the context of the situation and expect others to point everything out. Attempt to solve things by understanding context quickly yourself.
But yes it also means not approaching or acting thick skulled like no info gets through to you even if blatantly obvious.
I gave some practical steps, try em first before asking for more. Otherwise me thinks thou dost protest too much and you are not serious about learning to progress quickly but rather want to progress painlessly those are two very different things

Be aware I said mentality is key to improving fast, this is how you react to EVERYTHING. In sales your mentality affects sales, same with women. Women react to your reactions so erase bad reactions by locating them, studying and fixing them.
I do know the answer you are looking for but I can't teach that over a post

first, thanking you for taking the time to try to help me.

I honestly do not understand what practical steps you are suggesting i implement.

That's why in my last post I asked if there was anything I can do in the real physical world (not mentally) to implement your suggestions

I asked for things I could do in the real physical world NOT because i want to progress painlessly but because i do NOT understand the mental steps you are suggesting i implement so i was hoping there where physical steps i could take to achieve the same outcome

I just reread all your posts on this thread to see if i could understand better what you are suggesting i do.

here's my understanding after re-reading everything you wrote:

I need to sit down, look up the definition of the mental issues below and find out which of them i struggle with:

bitterness, jealousy, possessiveness, temperamental, rude, passive, stingy, mommas boy, slow on the uptake, expecting too much, prudish etc.

after that i need to use google to find out what is needed to fix these mental issues and then I should implement these changes?

are these the actions you are suggesting i take if i want to improve my sex life as fast as possible?
 
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