What is the source of condescending behaviors or status-climbing behaviors?

[jesslee09]

I fall into the category of treating everyone with warmth (try to) and just trying to enjoy everyone. Every once in awhile, I'll run into a guy who tries to status climb over me when they see me with a girl or start acting condescending.

Sometimes I feel like, is it because he thinks I'm an easy target? And other times I'm aware he's doing that to feel superior and cover up his own insecurities underneath.

My question is however, if he is condescending me, i.e using me to feel superior, does that mean he thinks I'm weak or an easy target?

I'm not sure how to look at these situations.

 

[RedNeck]

Most probable due to his insecurities. Even if he thinks you are an easy target , look at it in the following way :

A radar sends waves in all directions to detect the coming objects . The bigger the object is , the stronger the reflections will be .

This guy is the radar and he is sending his waves .
I think you got my point

 

[jesslee09]

Most probable due to his insecurities. Even if he thinks you are an easy target , look at it in the following way :

A radar sends waves in all directions to detect the coming objects . The bigger the object is , the stronger the reflections will be .

This guy is the radar and he is sending his waves .
I think you got my point

I get it. Bigger the waves, bigger the insecurity. But also says I have something to work on as well.

 

[trashKENNUT]

We all do behave in condescending behaviors.

Example: when women are around, all men seems to behave like "heros". We talk louder. As in over someone, just enough to make the girl listen but not so much that she finds it annoying (though she hears it)

This is because the women is interacting with you. Not me. Thus i have to get her attention.

So yea..... It's not so much that the world is evil. It's not so much that the haters hate you.
It's about them. It's about opportunities.

I recommend that you see this universally, so that you can have better empathy. Tactically, i hope someone will help link a Girlschase article to handle this type of behaviors (because we live in reality.)

z@c+

 

[RedNeck]

I get it. Bigger the waves, bigger the insecurity. But also says I have something to work on as well.

Not really . It is not about his waves . It is about the reflection .
He is the radar and he is sending waves in all direction with the same strength to sort out the weak and the strong men .
So him sending waves (or giving you shit has nothing to do with you being an easy target ) . Initially, he will test men with the same wave strength.
Your response ( the waves reflection) to his waves ( giving you shit) will let him know who are you .
You are a strong, confident male .... you will have strong response to his tests... he will know that you are confident and you are not an easy target

you are weak male ..,,you will have weak response ...he will know that you are an easy target for him .