This isn't about seduction per say, but a female friend of mine exhibits a certain behavior pattern with all of her boyfriends that I'm really curious about.
Basically, when there's a disagreement, or if she's not pleased with them for some reason, she will say something cutting or likely to provoke a reaction, but she will say it with a smile on her face and in a very nice tone. However, if the guy responds with the least bit of overt hostility or defensiveness, she immediately -- I mean without even letting the guy finish his first sentence -- pounces on him with "whoah, chill out, wtf" etc, attacking the guy's response (as disproportionate or uncalled for or whatever) rather than the actually subject of the argument.
This seems to be very effective at shutting down resistance from her guys, especially because it almost always turns anyone else present in the group at the time to take her side against the guy.
There's got to be a name for this technique, right? How do you defend against it? I remember Hector talking about something like this a couple times. Maybe he could identify it?
All The Best,
Daniel
Basically, when there's a disagreement, or if she's not pleased with them for some reason, she will say something cutting or likely to provoke a reaction, but she will say it with a smile on her face and in a very nice tone. However, if the guy responds with the least bit of overt hostility or defensiveness, she immediately -- I mean without even letting the guy finish his first sentence -- pounces on him with "whoah, chill out, wtf" etc, attacking the guy's response (as disproportionate or uncalled for or whatever) rather than the actually subject of the argument.
This seems to be very effective at shutting down resistance from her guys, especially because it almost always turns anyone else present in the group at the time to take her side against the guy.
There's got to be a name for this technique, right? How do you defend against it? I remember Hector talking about something like this a couple times. Maybe he could identify it?
All The Best,
Daniel