More on
momentum.
Concluding this one - I ended up interviewing this girl for an assignment. It was a plausibly deniable deep dive that focused 100% of the conversation on her motivations, done on a couch in my apartment lobby. I ended up bouncing her up and down real quick after her uber call. This was months ago. Never followed up after her Europe trip. Telling the class I approached her in public had a very apparent preselection boost on one classmate.
But I also interviewed another girl for the assignment who I ran into today. So she was a professional contact who's always had great sexual tension. We've sat legs close to touching in a cafe and always stand with faces close with her extended glances at my lips. She gave me an extremely tight hug on the sidewalk today with her family there. This was the social momentum start.
Returning to the apartment, I ran into this two year kid who asked me for a key. He'd found a keyhole in the lobby so I led him over to it and had him try a couple. I had great tension with his mom, but they were only in there warming up and there were other people in the lobby. Otherwise I could have gone direct to get a quick number.
But as I got on the elevator, this other girl who'd overheard rushed to get in with me. The mom said goodbye again from afar, and then riding up, I asked the girl if she was visiting (on her way to her brother's). It didn't matter what I'd said because she was like completely beaming. And so I asked if she was single and she said no, Happy Thanksgiving and still had this huge smile on her face.
This is where I need "the snap" to get her to exit the elevator and pull right away, but I will never have that great of a wingman again.
