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What is your process (from meeting women to sex?)

Humay

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Does everyone have their own process by which they follow by when meeting women? (or do some people here just prefer to wing it?).

I'll appreciate hearing other people's process'/gameplan from meeting the girl to sex.

Although i haven't been with many women lately (still a bit new to this!), my process (based on the methods and teachings of this site) is:

1. Meet sexy woman
2. Use my charm to get her number
3. Set up a date as soon as possible. No dicking about with the texting. (Be sure to call her instead of texting when I arrange the date).
4. Arrange the date to be close to my place.
5. Encourage her to come back to my place after a romantic day out.
6. Sex

Although it isn't very specific, it's always in my head whenever i enter a conversation with a woman. I'll be happy to hear others', which would probably help my own process a lot!).
 

Tyme2k

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Night game:

Approach with physicality piercing eyecontact
lead/isolate, build sexual tension
Screen for logistics
Pull to seduction location, (alley, parking garage, apartment) If they aren't drunk I have them drive me home, if they are drunk we can walk or cab(I'm 4 blocks or less from the clubs)
close

Day game:

Approach
Screen/qualify
Set date or go for instant date
number close
text meet
close to my place, usually meet at my place then walk, build sexual tension, rapport, and comfort
walk back to my place asap
sit on my bed(it's in my living room and no where else to sit) more comfort, escalate, get them dripping wet until they rape me

Other strategies I have used:

Approach
Build attraction
Number close
Invite to group event

A. Girl sees me with other girls being extremely social and vibing, she usually attempts to integrate
Isolate
pull

B. Friendzone girl
use a group of girls as social proof, dance have fun etc.
Open new girls
screen for logistics
pull

Last night game strategy RSD Seeding:

Approach
build attraction
seed the pull "we're gonna meet up after this" "after party"
number close on a high point
Repeat with every set
Around closing shoot out texts to meet and go to after party
Meet girl
Close

All I have used, I prefer the social proof because I love feminine energy. It's tons of fun to go out with a bunch of girls, if you don't want any you came with, others open like butter, smooth. Last night I went to a club with my girl and danced, every single girl in the place gravitated to me and I was getting opened left and right. I was not looking my best, hair was shit, shirt was wrinkled, yet I got more looks than any other guy in the place. I'm sure it helped we had a VIP booth, my girl is super hot and into me, my fundamentals are tight, and I exude sexual energy, but still even a novice can pull this one off.

I think the highest and easiest return is the RSD seeding method. Great if you have a wing and you're opening group sets, also great for solo sarging.

Day game is by far the most work and the least fun. You will get tons of flakey numbers especially if the girls are hot. Until you become an expert at day 2's, you will also have a ton before you close consistently. The only thing I can say is the types of girls seem to be higher quality, depending on where you're gaming. This one is great to learn because when you're in the moment, shopping at the grocery store and you see that 9, knowing you've done thousands of day approaches, and successfully closed girls off this, it makes it much easier to just walk up and bam!

Main thing is for you to just go out and approach.

Good luck
 

coconutpete

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I remember reading Chase's "process" something like a year ago, maybe less, and it was very interesting as I remember but I can't find it anymore. Chase, could you please lay it down again?
 

Chase

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coconutpete said:
I remember reading Chase's "process" something like a year ago, maybe less, and it was very interesting as I remember but I can't find it anymore. Chase, could you please lay it down again?

In this article: Does Confidence = Success? Actually... No, skim down to the section titled "A Series of Steps."

Chase
 
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