I'm surprise this post didn't get more love. The ways you get high points and compliance are numerous and tell you a lot about the gamer and the workings of the seduction imo. Mid point (that's your hook), low points (how skilled you are), high point (what spices you throw in the interaction).
Before I start there is an adjacent discussion of this topic by
@Chase (The advanced section has some fire posts. Wish it got more attention...understandable why it doesn't though.)
I'm actually not totally sure about this yet. My sample size is somewhat limited. However, I would be super curious to hear others' experiences. I've started suspecting recently that the biggest difference between natural game and pick up artist game is the use of humor. This is not to say one...
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A.
Her laughing (most obvious one) Chase frame, tension defuser, cocky funny, us vs them humor, etc)
B.
Her agreeing with me. Us vs them gambit, sex talk, Bacchus's Sexual Fantasy, etc)
C.
Hypnotic moments. Touch, gambit, tone of voice and pacing, compliance, triangle gazing)
D.
Qualifying to you or extending the interaction. Locking in, telling you things about herself, filling dead air with chump game as Gunwitch calls it.
E.
Dancing ( Skills but he combines these and much more in his interactions. Part of why he's a boss.)
F.
Combination of all or multiple of these as well as things I missed or slipped my mind at the moment.
G.
Sex and directly after sex time. This can determine your retention, frames you set in relationship, expectations.
H.
Preselection and to a lesser extent social proof.
My biggest tip to you is to look at reports and lay reports. Really try to interpret the energy. If you can't get it then just ask them and they can clarify what points they felt in their interaction (provided they weren't too nervous or lack awareness). Look at reports and check out how they are getting high points and USING them.
A lot of FU I read are missing escalation windows, improperly using high points and or mismanaging the hook/compliance after, poor timing...myself included.
Get some of this stuff improved with a mindful eye to your fundies and you're a cut above many other guys.
Like a chef your high points are like cook time. Some burn bright then cool quickly requiring quick action, some roast over the hours or day and take awhile to cool internally, others are average...bro I think I'm just hungry my bad with this metaphor haha
Peace.
Really surprised this didn't get attention when it was posted. Very interesting topic. The cost and benefits of one high point vs another, the implications on the interaction, your usage of the highpoint.
Another great adjacent post by
@TomInHo . High points and escalation windows are similar imo.
I was looking through some of my old seduction notes and I compiled a list of escalation windows I've noticed and capitalized on in field. Even though learning advanced seduction techniques are fun, I feel like a lot of us can run into the problem of over gaming. Meaning we don't realize the...
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