What really goes on....in a mind of people who wanna bring you down.

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Howdy fellas,

You know, i was just wondering that....what really goes on in the mind of guys that wanna bring you down a notch, like trying to disrespect you.

Like they don't even wanna miss a chance of doing just that.

And why they even feel like doing that in the first place anyway?. Is it because they are insecure. Why they are insecure in the first place anyway. Do i have something to do with it. Like am i making them insecure or something?

Its not my fault that girls around me are flirting with me sexually but not with them.

I mean why they wanna tool you. I think many people can see through that what they'r trying to do. Do these toolers don't know that or something.

I really wanna unerstand the mindset of these kind of people before dealing with them.

Also let me know how to deal with them.

Thanks.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Kent,

I mean why they wanna tool you. I think many people can see through that what they'r trying to do. Do these toolers don't know that or something.

I really wanna unerstand the mindset of these kind of people before dealing with them.

Also let me know how to deal with them.

It's a dominance thing, and this is another reason why religion is still idiotic till today.

Because dominance + ignorance + bad culture + religion incongruency + human flaws = fucking disaster

The thing you need to understand is the root, it can be any and not in order or all of them:

1)First meeting was they are better than you
2)First meeting was they get the upperhand than you
3)Age, i am older than you
4)Assumption that i have better knowledge than you
5)Ego, external stuff
6)Delusion/the self, believing in one thing vs doing another thing or forcing things

So yea, sometimes people can be all of them.

Zac

 

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Zac,

That make sense, so you are saying its a dominance thing.

So teach me to be dominant then.

Also, how can one avoid these signs that you show . That how to protect yourself from these traits in the first place.

When first meeting people, i don't really try to be dominant with them or something. But what i've seen is, most of them DO. Like they'll try to social ladder climb in really CHEAP way. I don't even like it man. I find it to be really cheap, just so terrible......like it makes me cringe from the inside.

It just makes me not respecting the ones who try to do this. Just really horrible man.

So, how do i deal with this....any ideas?.

Thanks.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Kent,

So teach me to be dominant then.

You don't need to be dominant proactively. In today's century, do that and you see what happens. In today's world, employees don't deal greatly with employers who are hard headed.

In a sense, think of the world heading towards planetary, because it's obvious how the world is turning out when people go 'Joseon' and now everyone is stalemate.

Also, how can one avoid these signs that you show . That how to protect yourself from these traits in the first place.

You will show your weakness from time to time, but those who are uptight is obvious as well. Those who are young and too relax like me can raise uneasiness among older generation because it's too out of reality for them

So you can't protect every angle but you can remain aloof when people give you the look. If they are camaraderie in words, be camaraderie in words but don't mean it.

It's somewhat manipulation which unfortunately how the world is.

When first meeting people, i don't really try to be dominant with them or something. But what i've seen is, most of them DO. Like they'll try to social ladder climb in really CHEAP way. I don't even like it man. I find it to be really cheap, just so terrible......like it makes me cringe from the inside.

Yes, unfortunately the world is that way.

It just makes me not respecting the ones who try to do this. Just really horrible man.

So, how do i deal with this....any ideas?.

How do you deal with this depends

-on where you are, Which place
-who is the people there?
-social structure there or social environment (are they cool or are they uptight or their value systems)

In the meantime, check my conversation between BIGBOSS and me.

: viewtopic.php?f=3&t=14362&p=72791&hilit=camaraderie#p72791

Zac