So i met that girl on a friends (Julia) birthday party. We connected pretty well, exchanged numbers, agreed on a date. When i wrote her the next day she didnt answer for like one day. And when she answered she wrote something like:
"I like you but im not sure if we can meet. I think Julia wouldnt like that (Julia is her best friend and im pretty sure Julia is in love with me so this might be true...). I have to ask her first"
So now im like:
a) This is either some really weird excuse not to date but i mean... everything is possible
Or
b) its actually true and i dont know what i should do next. We know attraction has an expiration date so just waiting forever wont do much. So i could ask her again which looks like chasing her. Or i could just move on and wait for her to text again which probly wont happen.
"I like you but im not sure if we can meet. I think Julia wouldnt like that (Julia is her best friend and im pretty sure Julia is in love with me so this might be true...). I have to ask her first"
So now im like:
a) This is either some really weird excuse not to date but i mean... everything is possible
Or
b) its actually true and i dont know what i should do next. We know attraction has an expiration date so just waiting forever wont do much. So i could ask her again which looks like chasing her. Or i could just move on and wait for her to text again which probly wont happen.
