Socializing What should I say?

[celestialuna]

So I have a friend I met at church twice that I want to just meet one on one to grab a drink and get to know each other but she says she can't. This is how the texts went:
Me: ah okay, do you want to grab a drink sometime.
Her: I'm busy at the moment with wedding stuff - I guess the not so great side of busyness lol. I was procrastinating for awhile but ya I need to pick up the pace since I have 2 months left =\
She is single and not marrying anyone. What'd be a good response to this?

 

[Thinkingenigma]

So I have a friend I met at church twice that I want to just meet one on one to grab a drink and get to know each other but she says she can't. This is how the texts went:
Me: ah okay, do you want to grab a drink sometime.
Her: I'm busy at the moment with wedding stuff - I guess the not so great side of busyness lol. I was procrastinating for awhile but ya I need to pick up the pace since I have 2 months left =\
She is single and not marrying anyone. What'd be a good response to this?

Whose wedding is she working on then?

 

[celestialuna]

Its a friend of hers I believe. I dont know that person getting married.

 

[Thinkingenigma]

Its a friend of hers I believe. I dont know that person getting married.

Gotcha. My advice is to leave her be for now then try again after the wedding. If she's legitimately busy, you'll crash and burn, and if she's not interested, you're better off not dogging her anyways.

 

[celestialuna]

okay thanks. I'll keep this in mind.