What Techniques do you use to create attraction ?

[One_of_kind_200]

Push and pull
Negs
Teasing


Whats the difference between them all ? i'm confused.

 

[Richard]

Would you just go out and approach already? You'll more just by doing it than you will by asking the same questions over and over and over, dude.

Push-pull: Pushing her to the brink of rejecting and then pulling her back in to create a tremendous amount of attraction. Imagine your boss calling you into his office, his voice is stern and he says there's an issue (push) and you feel uncomfortable, anxiety, you're wondering what's going on. You go into his office, he laughs, smiles at you, smacks your back and offers you a promotion (pull). The sudden flip from anxiety to relief creates a lot of positive emotion.

Neg: Girls are constantly bombarded with affection by guys who want to give them the world and quite frankly, that's boring for women. No girl wants a man who puts her on a pedestal. A "neg" is a compliment of sorts designed to show her interest without it being overbearing; basically you're not rewarding her just for being attractive, and you're not giving her attention just because she's attractive (something most men willingly give women).

Teasing: Poking fun of something while still building rapport with her. Teasing and humor only work if you've already built rapport with her and she feels comfortable with you. I, typically, tease girls by exploiting situations or things a girl says;
I got to my girlfriend's place the other night and she was wiping up some spilled water and the first thing I said was "You forgot the wet floor sign."
Or, I'll be laying down in bed with her and she'll tease me with something like "You could be at home with your sister" and I'll playfully let out a sigh of frustration, roll over and turn my back to her, and then put a pillow between us.

-Richard

 

[One_of_kind_200]

Actually i just came back from sargung. Didnt get any numbers tho.
What do you think of my push n pull ... " excuse me, i see you are confused. If you are looking for weight loss products, they r in ilal 8"
She got like EXCUSE ME. WEIGHT LOSS?
i couldnt hold my laught, i said im kidding im just messing with. She started slowly to walk way and i said this is just rude and left. Whatta you think ?

 

[Richard]

Push-Pull LR: Read that of you want to see how push-pull works, and to see what it looks like. Its not a way to phrase a statement, it's a process that occurs as time goes on with a girl.

As for your comment, it was rude. Why would any girl laugh or open up to a guy who basically said "I think you're fat." If you were at the store in the pharmacy aisle and the first thing I said to you was "Hey, you look confused. Medicine for down syndrome can only be prescribed" would you talk to me?

As I and many other people have said; YOU NEED TO START BY ASKING GIRLS ABOUT THEMSELVES AND KEEP THE FOCUS ON THEM. WORRY ABOUT EVERYTHING ELSE LATER OF YOU WILL NEVER GET LAID.

 

[One_of_kind_200]

Ok i think u got something wrong here. Yku said teasing comes after.. but no girl will want to talk to a stranger if she wasnt attracted to. So attraction first and comfort second, agree ?
Also whats building rapport sound like in practice ?

 

[Richard]

Ok i think u got something wrong here.

Saying something like this shows me that you have no social calibration. Best case scenario is that you're a troll who gets his kicks by making posts like this, worst case scenario is that you actually don't understand this stuff logically or practically.

Anyhow, you jump to a lot of conclusions and make everything black and white. Strangers talk to each other all the time and it doesn't mean everybody is attracted to one another; it's not a matter of being attractive, it's a matter of not being a fucking creep, so long as you don't come off as a creep GIRLS will talk to you. The weight loss joke you made makes you look like a creep.

So, no, it's comfort first and then attraction. You make her comfortable by not being a creep initially and then you slowly ramp things up over the course of talking to her. Seriously, read any FR or LR on the boards if you want to see how things work. Start with "Hey," ask her about herself because the more people talk about themselves the more comfortable they become and then you can start lightly teasing her, etc.

 

[Average]

Hey man,

Before I answer your question, I couldn't help but notice the word "neg" in your post. That's something I usually see in other pickup sites and not this one. So I'm getting the impression that your cheating on us

Jokes aside I recommend that if you're reading multiple pick up sites, then you focus on them one at a time rather than all at the same time as you will get information overload gauranteed. If you can, just dump em all altogether and just stick to GirlsChase as everything you need is right here on the site. You will reach your goal no matter how hard you think it will be to reach because the information on this site and in the products are just life changing.

To answer your question "how to spark attraction", its all about fundamentals. Handling those down will get girls to fall for you hard. But I'm not gonna answer this:

Push and pull
Negs
Teasing


Whats the difference between them all ? i'm confused.

Because after reading this:

Actually i just came back from sargung. Didnt get any numbers tho.
What do you think of my push n pull ... " excuse me, i see you are confused. If you are looking for weight loss products, they r in ilal 8"
She got like EXCUSE ME. WEIGHT LOSS?
i couldnt hold my laught, i said im kidding im just messing with. She started slowly to walk way and i said this is just rude and left. Whatta you think ?

I have come to the conclusion that you are still a beginner in the path of seduction. And asking for detailed stuff like this isn't the right thing for you at this stage. Its not a bad thing. You made a bit of a social error in the interaction but at the stage your at then its ok to make a few errors. Just make sure you aren't trying to hurt the girls on your journey because that is completely unnecessary. So I'd say you should avoid teasing as far as possible because it seems to be too advanced for you at this stage. don't even try light teasing as I think you'll go too far still.

So then. I'm sure you're wondering what you should do to get results. Well as a beginner, you really only have to worry about two things:

1) most important of all you have to go out approaching women. This is how you'll make your progress most of all. By going out and realising that rejection doesn't kill (believe me, you will be rejected a lot. Its not a bad thing. Its just a part of the growth you have to accept. DO NOT TAKE IT PERSONAL. If she rejects you then take it with the nicest smile you can muster and politely excuse yourself). That girls are kinder than you think. And that girls are actual human beings who want to connect with you. And that YOU have the ability to give the girls the connection they've been looking for

2) Fundamentals. Fundamentals. Fundamentals. You should improve your fundamentals as far as you can. Search the site on "fundamentals" and you'll get a plethora of information that you don't have to implement all at once but piece by piece until you get the hang of things in one section and then move onto the other. It will take a lot of time for you to get all of your fundamentals down to the point that you do it all subconsciously. But trust me: it will be worth it. Your attractiveness will skyrocket.

Those two points are what you will have to stick to if you want to boost YOUR attraction. After getting your fundamentals handled you will officially be an intermediate seducer as you would have passed the tough parts of seduction that usually cause most men to not take seduction seriously.

but no girl will want to talk to a stranger if she wasnt attracted to.

yeah she will. She can speak to a friend she has zero attraction towards. Maybe a business partner she has no attraction for whatsoever. Or maybe a teacher or somebody who needs her help that she feels nothing but pity and sadness for, but not attraction. Some girls even get married to a guy she isn't attracted towards.

So attraction first and comfort second, agree ?

Half agree and half disagree. Attraction does come first, but comfort is a part of attraction. How many girls do you know who would reject Ryan gosling so she could go for the sexy Jack the Ripper? None? Good!

Richard explains it best here:

Strangers talk to each other all the time and it doesn't mean everybody is attracted to one another; it's not a matter of being attractive, it's a matter of not being a fucking creep, so long as you don't come off as a creep GIRLS will talk to you. The weight loss joke you made makes you look like a creep.

So, no, it's comfort first and then attraction. You make her comfortable by not being a creep initially and then you slowly ramp things up over the course of talking to her.

Also whats building rapport sound like in practice ?

And he answers this question here:

As I and many other people have said; YOU NEED TO START BY ASKING GIRLS ABOUT THEMSELVES AND KEEP THE FOCUS ON THEM. WORRY ABOUT EVERYTHING ELSE LATER

And here:

read any FR or LR on the boards if you want to see how things work. Start with "Hey," ask her about herself because the more people talk about themselves the more comfortable they become and then you can start lightly teasing her, etc.

Reading the field and lay reports will also give you a rough idea of the socially acceptable way to interact with women. Honestly, I've seen some of Richard's lay and field reports and this guy is a genius and he blew my mind multiple times

(I almost directly messaged him for an autograph once XD)

If you follow my two points, listen to everything that Richard told you in all of his posts in your topic and just keep pushing through the rejections and calibrations, you will become a master PUA gauranteed. Just heed his words carefully.

Side note: don't mean to sound harsh or like a mom but... work on your typing too. The typos are kinda distracting. If you get numbers from girls then sending messages with proper typing will yield better results. So start getting into the habit of typing correctly.

 

[One_of_kind_200]

Push-Pull LR: Read that of you want to see how push-pull works, and to see what it looks like. Its not a way to phrase a statement, it's a process that occurs as time goes on with a girl.

As for your comment, it was rude. Why would any girl laugh or open up to a guy who basically said "I think you're fat." If you were at the store in the pharmacy aisle and the first thing I said to you was "Hey, you look confused. Medicine for down syndrome can only be prescribed" would you talk to me?

As I and many other people have said; YOU NEED TO START BY ASKING GIRLS ABOUT THEMSELVES AND KEEP THE FOCUS ON THEM. WORRY ABOUT EVERYTHING ELSE LATER OF YOU WILL NEVER GET LAID.

Richard, you are very smart guy. You really are. Can you pls click on my profile and reply to my " can you give me your honest please" post. I really wanna read your input. Thanks

 

[One_of_kind_200]

Ok i think u got something wrong here.

Saying something like this shows me that you have no social calibration. Best case scenario is that you're a troll who gets his kicks by making posts like this, worst case scenario is that you actually don't understand this stuff logically or practically.

Anyhow, you jump to a lot of conclusions and make everything black and white. Strangers talk to each other all the time and it doesn't mean everybody is attracted to one another; it's not a matter of being attractive, it's a matter of not being a fucking creep, so long as you don't come off as a creep GIRLS will talk to you. The weight loss joke you made makes you look like a creep.

So, no, it's comfort first and then attraction. You make her comfortable by not being a creep initially and then you slowly ramp things up over the course of talking to her. Seriously, read any FR or LR on the boards if you want to see how things work. Start with "Hey," ask her about herself because the more people talk about themselves the more comfortable they become and then you can start lightly teasing her, etc.

Richard, you are very smart guy. You really are. Can you pls click on my profile and reply to my " can you give me your honest please" post. I really wanna read your input. Thanks