What the F is GOING ON?

[One_of_kind_200]

I literally get rejected instantly like within 2 mins of talking. I'm tall, dark, and handsome. and I practice what Chase says yet get no results at all. I talked to several girls today one who was reading a book, two girls together at a lounge, and others. All what I got is " I have a financie." " I have a bf." " I am married." This is even BEFORE i asked out. All the crap dating coaches and pick-up artists say about creating attraction before comfort is bullshit. There is no time to create anything if she rejects you within 2 mins. Unbelievable how girls have become so closed minded like this. Thats why I have started to believe in arranged marriage.

Im willing to give you $50 if you show me, in person, how pick up a girl in day and night game. I live in LA.

 

[trashKENNUT]

O.K,

I think we need to understand your reality first. I feel too many conflicting signals here. IT seems like you operating from two or three or maybe four completely different principles/fundamentals/reality.

and mixing that with the process of doing things, which is another set of different things. This is really messy.

Can you tell about yourself? what you study, how's your dating history roughly?

Let's go from there.

Zac

 

[Inbocca]

Honestly, man, your viewpoints impact your actions in the form of nuances a lot. Just like with fundamentals and pretty much everything else in socialization and dating/pickup, nuances have a tremendous effect. From what your posts are saying, it sounds like you have a really negative view of pickup and dating, like it doesn't work for you or that you're the exception to the rules which seem to work for everyone else. If you believe that about yourself, it's going to come out in your interactions and it's going to impact your success. I'm not saying this is the only reason (I don't know much about you personally), but I can't imagine your interactions are going to go well if you really believe the stuff you keep reiterating.

Everything starts from a mindset. You can't expect your results to change your mindset, you need to change your mindset before you start getting different results.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Inbocca,

chill, he has too many operating systems in his mind, that's why. It's killing him. Read my response. and read all his post again. I am sure compassion can be helpful


Zac

 

[One_of_kind_200]

Honestly, man, your viewpoints impact your actions in the form of nuances a lot. Just like with fundamentals and pretty much everything else in socialization and dating/pickup, nuances have a tremendous effect. From what your posts are saying, it sounds like you have a really negative view of pickup and dating, like it doesn't work for you or that you're the exception to the rules which seem to work for everyone else. If you believe that about yourself, it's going to come out in your interactions and it's going to impact your success. I'm not saying this is the only reason (I don't know much about you personally), but I can't imagine your interactions are going to go well if you really believe the stuff you keep reiterating.

Everything starts from a mindset. You can't expect your results to change your mindset, you need to change your mindset before you start getting different results.

LOL FUNNY! Because thats actually what I believe is that I am an exception to the rule and always get rejected so I'm jaded. But now that we know the problem, whats the solution of constent rejection? Practical solution. What should I have said instead ?

 

[Drck]

I literally get rejected instantly like within 2 mins of talking. I'm tall, dark, and handsome.
>>>> Are you really? Why do you get rejected all the time within 2 minutes then...?

I talked to several girls today one who was reading a book, two girls together at a lounge, and others. All what I got is " I have a financie." " I have a bf." " I am married."
>>>> So, because you talked to them for 2 minutes, they were suppossed to jump up from the chair, give you a big hug and ask you to follow them to their bedroom? I don't get it... Teach me!