What to do to be Productive During Evenings After Work?

[The Emerald Archer]

Hey Fellas,

I'm currently trying to find a way to be productive and help advance myself closer towards my goals on those evenings after work. My current work schedule is Mon-Thurs 8am-4:30 pm. Mon and Wed are my gym days for Olympic Weightlifting. Practice usually averages 2.5 hrs including warm-up and post-training stretching mobility. By the time I get home it's usually 7:30-8pm. After shower and eat I have a good 2-3 hrs of free time. I dismissed approaching on those days because it's usually too late after work+gym.

So, for tues and thurs when I get home at 5 and don't have weightlifting practice I'm trying to spend those evenings productively. I've done some field time those days and would like to make those days consistent field time days. However, I was wondering what else could be done those evenings productively.

Current ideas include: spending time outside or going for a walk in parks and rotating parks every time, going to a coffee shop and reading seduction material or reflecting on goals or updating fashion and style via. online shopping. that's all I got so far.

Any ideas on other ways to spend those few hours productively after work?

 

[The Emerald Archer]

Anyone?

 

[Lotus]

Well reading seduction material isn't the only way to make yourself a better seducer. Continue to sharpen your mind by reading other things as well.

Do you have other hobbies that you can do to balance the grind? Most people tend to burn themselves out and cannot sustain the improvements. Have some fun time each week helps with that.

What can you do to further yourself in your career?

If you are looking to advance, putting in work towards getting better at your job off hours will put you light years ahead of everyone else at the office... Or whatever your job is.

I've put my seduction on in he past 6 months to get ahead in my post college career while I have the time and ability. When I wasn't at work I was thinking about how I could improve at work. Not a ton of hours but enough to put me ahead and I just got a promotion over a guy who was in my position 16 months longer then I was.

My point is, what do you want long term? What can you do now to get there?

Short term & long term goals are the key to achieving those things. Once you know what you want long term, it will be extremely clear what to do short term

Lotus

 

[The Emerald Archer]

Lotus,

My main focus in my life right now for at least the next 2 years until I graduate would be seduction/social skills and Olympic Weightlifting. Weightlifting I may stop doing within the next 6 months-year, depends on my progress with that one as I don't have any aspirations to go to Nationals. In all honesty though, my longer-term goal/dream is to build several passive-income businesses so that I can be location independent. I really like the idea of freelancing as a bridge towards entrepreneurship since a lot of freelance skills transfer over. (especially copywriting and programming) However, I don't want to be scatterbrained that I make an inch of progress in many directions because that's been a big weakness of mine in the past. But that is my ultimate goal- to become a mastermind entrepreneur. It always has been since I was a kid.

I suppose it wouldn't hurt to take a couple courses on Udemy and similar sites, as well as reading a few books on those topics. I just want to make sure I'm taking action and not just reading like my tendency has been in the past. What kind of actions did you take to help get that promotion and get ahead of that other guy?

 

[Parkour]

I have a few thoughts:
Do something in line with your mission. Something that involves giving value. It's great for the soul and it adds depth. Maybe you can help other people with building strength, or at least help someone with improving social skills that is further behind than you

It becomes extra credit if you're giving/helping to girls like tutoring or otherwise training. Not only to build up your preselection, but to just get more references interacting with them in a leading capacity. Subconsciously you just get into the mode of giving value without getting drained or expecting anything in return but everyone being better off for it. You might build your own social fan base.

Finally, just anything that exposes you to new constructive stuff outside of your comfort zone like learning an instrument or getting involved in campus clubs that remotely interest you. Extra points if you start the club.

 

[The Emerald Archer]

Parkour,

Good point on giving value and keeping in line with a man's mission. One new skill I'm dying to learn is copywriting and to eventually freelance. Perhaps those evenings after work could be spent on Udemy or somewhere else learning how to write copy, since part of my mission is to strike out on my own and leave the corporate world within the next few years. Do you have a similar mission of working for yourself/freelancing eventually?