What to do when a girl asks you to do something?

[carlitos2055]

Example: Girls asks you to pick up her pencil, hold her book, etc. How can I respond to a demand like that, to get some compliance/investment out of that. I know Chase explained it before but I can't find the article. Basically something so If i do what she says, she must do something first, so I don't come off as a nice guy. Thanks!

 

[Thedoctor]

carlitos,

Here's the article I think you're looking for:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-b ... ored-women

One thing to remember is to not overdo it if there is basically no work on your part. One example would be if you're sitting down at a table and she asks you to go get her a napkin. You can teasingly tell her she is capable of going to get her own napkin (and then make sure she goes and gets it herself). But if you're already up grabbing a napkin and she asks for one also, it's really not any additional work for you to bring her one too.

-John

 

[carlitos2055]

Yea i think you definitely hit the spot! Thanks

 

[Nova]

yeh what doctor said, it's all balance as is everything in seduction. essentially it's about making sure you don't come across as a subservient little bitch but also not as some kind of weirdo who doesn't do anything for anybody just because.

just think of it as 'not making yourself look easy.' but it has to come across as natural, or you look like your playing some kind of game or whatever.