What to do when taking a break from seduction

[Spyce D]

I have decided to take a 2 months break from pickup due to feeling stressed any time I go out.

It's not that I am not improving but i just want to stop for a while.

So , what should I do during this time that is also productive and help me when I start pickup
Again.

 

[Conquistador]

Welcome to my world!

Well, ofc taking care of your health and happiness is important. Improving sleep and diet etc (that’s where I’m at rn) works wonders.
Other things include habit formation, getting connected spiritually, reading some thought-provoking books (Musk for example apparently spends 2h a day reading).
Of course the obvious thing a lot of guys do in this situation is set some defined fitness goals and work toward them. That will defs improve your game altho there are nuances.
You could focus on improving your finances. In California you can get at least $50/hour from assembling furniture for clueless soccer moms as a gig but I doubt it’s quite that lucrative in India.

Most of all, these kinds of breaks are really valuable bc they give you the opportunity to think big-picture about yourself, your goals, and the paths you could take.

 

[Higher]

Totally second Surveyor here.

Def build yourself in some other ways. Your brain will keep on processing the information you accumulated so far in your seduction journey, and it might give you insights thatll be game-changing.

 

[Chase]

@Spyce D,

Shag chicks from social circle instead!

Or did you mean you are taking a break from girls in general...?

If the latter:

1. Just be as social as you can be with guys/girls/everyone.
2. Network more and make more male and female friends.
3. Find more activities to do / join classes / take up new hobbies/sports.
4. Find something creative you'd like to be good at. Spend 30 minutes a day getting better at it.

Aim to make it so that when you get back to picking up, you'll do so with a fuller social calendar, more friends, more connections, a more interesting life, and something cool and creative you're learning to do.

Chase

 

[Spyce D]

Improving sleep and diet etc

Yup. Thats what I have been already focussing on ...

getting connected spiritually, reading some thought-provoking books

I would say that I do feel spiritually empty these days . Got to work on that.

And I have actually read a lot of thought provoking books but won't read them anymore cuz of information overload in my brain. So , will be focussing on curing the analysis paralysis .

fitness goals

I am a lean guy and now my first goal is to become to lean muscular . In pickup , looks are important as a tool that's what I have realised and I already got them so will maximize them.

. In California you can get at least $50/hour from assembling furniture for clueless soccer moms as a gig but I doubt it’s quite that lucrative in India.

Damn. 50$ per hour is crazy. Anyways, I will just double down on my career from now .

Most of all, these kinds of breaks are really valuable bc they give you the opportunity to think big-picture about yourself, your goals, and the paths you could take.

Totally second Surveyor here.

Def build yourself in some other ways. Your brain will keep on processing the information you accumulated so far in your seduction journey, and it might give you insights thatll be game-changing.

I have noticed the benefits of taking breaks when I used to play football . It's like shit gets stored in my subconscious mind and when I return ... Things actually feel easier.

 

[Spyce D]

did you mean you are taking a break from girls in general...?

Currently , I have this girl I have talking with ( through Daygame ) ... And we have planned to meet after her exams are over in 2nd week of April . Let's see if something happens .

I have stopped expecting these days cuz It breaks my heart lol.

Except her I have more or less taken break from chicks. Cuz I was putting chicks above me , emotionally . And wasn't able to have fun while daygaming .

Aim to make it so that when you get back to picking up, you'll do so with a fuller social calendar, more friends, more connections, a more interesting life, and something cool and creative you're learning to do.

Yup . Thats my goal. And also that I will become more high vibrational guy too .

It feels like I have been attracting negative and loser-y kind of folks due to my own energy. So , gotta work on my energy too .

Whenever I spoke , it always feels like I am really tired. Ffs.

Anyways , quitting pick up ( even though for a while ) seems tougher than getting into pickup . Haha. Cuz lot of memories in a short span of time.