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What to text to a ex-girlfriends you havent spoke in a year

Lex

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My ex and I broke up a year ago we never spoke again except one time when our path crossed on the bus we text and see us one time 6 month ago to talk about what happpen to us and catch up at the end she wanted us to still keep in touch but I said no...she was seeing someone and I wasnt...but now Ive changed completly from the guy I used to be so what should I text her.my intention is not to get back with her just to talk I guess...nostalgy i guess.So what should i text her?

Ps: we were the first of each other

Lex
 

Sam Dray

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Adding to what Loser2Winner said..

If you are going to text her after such a long time.. Keep the text short. Something like:

Hey there (insert name). Are strangers allowed to drop by, just to see how things have been? ..Its been a while.

And take it from there.

-Sam
 

Whizzy

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Firstly, only get in contact with her if you are sure that your feelings are gone. If they are then just send a simple ice breaker text "Heya <insert name>, we should catchup sometime :)" Honestly I would aim to grab a drink or something as many people are terrible at communicating emotions through texting. The example above is completely non-needy, fun and a tad playful.
 

Rhyme

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Lex-

You can do what Chase spoke about in one of his earlier post (don't remember, maybe how to text girls). Just send her a message saying you found a cool place to eat and ask her out. If she says yes, move fast, but if she says no, move on.

All the best,
Jaime
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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