What Traits Do You Look for in an LTR (or Potential Wife) and Why?

[Chase]

I read this article many times.

Whenever I find a women, who fits this criteria and is above the looks threshold for me still I can’t see LTR with her.

I don’t know why I sabotage it while all I want to do logically is find an emotionally stable girl and start a family with her.

I find a spark missing.

Men were willing to engage in relationships with attractive women high in BPD traits, while women compensated low attractiveness for wealth in long-term dating, and did not desire secondary psychopathy in any relationship. Results show that women are more astute in mate preference, avoiding troublesome or financially challenged men who are time and economically costly, and men more readily engage in potentially turbulent relationships.​

From "Borderline personality traits in attractive women and wealthy low attractive men are relatively favoured by the opposite sex."