What value as a Man i have?

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This is just for self assurance, something i wanna understand deeply just for me.

So, what value i have as a man. What are my powers?

Respect?

And also..,how do i value/respect myself?. So that i can feel free, feel domimant, feel powerful, in my own eyes.

Feel controlled, confident?.

Let me know your thoughts on it.

Thanks.

 

[Marcellus]

Kent,
I really couldn't tell you man. I have no Idea who you are.
Who are you Kent? Are you a cool guy? Do you live an interesting life? Do you have cool friends? Are you fun to be around? Do you make people happier when they interact with you? Do you have fun hobbies?

 

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Marcellus,

what i am?.....well i'm little reserve type kind of a guy, sincere as you can say. I don't like to disrespect people in general. Little silent type dude, who don't like too much fun. Most of the time i'm in my head focusing on my priorities. I do like girls, just not everyone of them. I like girls that are little shy, submissive, confident and yeah good looking. You know my kind of girls, we all have different taste.

Freinds? Right now i'm in a state to decide wheather i should meet and make new freinds or go full Hermit. I don't like people to judge me. And to be honest....most of the people/freinds i have met, they were not that smart. They seem little.........stupid, they dont think before they open their mouth or smart enough to realise there words might affect someone.

I treat my freinds with respect. Not a fan of making too much freinds, i mean my best freind(s) are usually just one or two.

So, what do you think now

 

[Marcellus]

Kent,

I honestly don't think it matters what I or anyone else thinks of you. You have to develop that unwavering belief and self assurance from deep down inside, You must find it yourself.

Read this article, you don't have to read all of it but just the start, Hector expresses a great fundamental Truth.

" You are all alone"
https://www.girlschase.com/content/gap-finish-line-warriors-smile

And if that's not enough for you, you seem like an intelligent hardworking guy, very sincere and never putting/throwing people under the bus. Sounds like a great friend and someone I would love to have in my life.

Marcellus

 

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Marcellus,

that was great man, although i have already read that article but i'm gonna read it again.

You know i've just started to realise someone trying to tool you on purpose or not. I only throw guys under the bus who make me do it forcly. Or i'll give them a dead serious look that screams that whatever they did/said.. ..i dont like it a bit. Usually there face takes an u turn that's kind funny to watch actually, there expression turn from lightly/loudly laughing to all sad. Hah.

Its really good to make a freind here too! (you man). And in the last you put it the best 'to have someone like you in life'.

Okay i do get it now what you are trying to tell me and yeah from now on i'm not gonna care much about someond's opinion about me. And i'm talking about outside of GC and this forum, they have the most intelligent guys around the world.

 

[PrettyDecent]

Marcellus, rock on man. I respect the words you said here.

Kent, you're starting to become self-aware on a deeper level. Take it further.

How do you value and respect yourself? What decisions do you think you should make about your life? What decisions would make you proud of yourself?

Personally, I want to become achieve mastery in pickup. I want to be a freelancer so I can travel the world all the time. And I want to start running my own business in a couple years. I made a fucking hard decision a few months ago to break up with my girlfriend despite serious social consequences...and I quit my full-time job to a 2-day work week so I can make that all possible.

So. All that in mind. I was scared to make these choices, but I did it anyway...and now I can respect myself. I live exactly the way I think my life ought to be.

What do you want Kent? Ask yourself this question, and always ask "why?" to the answers that come up.

Nick

 

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Nick,

you know i've never been encouraged in my whole like this, this is the part of the reason i could never respect myself to be honest. It always lead me to go the opposite direction.
It made me thought that whatever i was thinking, wanting for me was.. .....kind of stupid.

But NO, i wasn't. In fact they were the ones who were stupid.

I know what i want for myself, and i also know 'WHY' i want that. Thanks for making it clear for me man.

Right now i'm focusing on getting the job i want and in my desire city. So i'm working really hard for that, i've actually put stop on this whole seduction thing right now. Not doing any of that.

I also know the 'WHY' i want that.

Looks like i'm with right guys right now.

Thanks.