What's the farthest out you should plan a date with a girl?

[Dragonetti]

I've noticed that if you plan a date too far away, the chance of her flaking skyrockets

 

[ulrich]

It really varies from case to case… some women are genuinely busy and can’t meet with you in a couple of weeks. I’ve been there.

But usually, you should aim to something no later than 4 days.

If she can’t meet in 4 days, either you are not that important to her or she is indeed an outlier with a busy life.
You got to find out which one is the truth.

 

[Conquistador]

Yeah I’ve noticed some girls in college, the high-powered ambitious kind, are genuinely busy…the one I’m going out with tomorrow made time 3 days out…there are some STEM people who literally might not have time around midterms or finals. In such a case, I think the best thing would be to agree to reserve a time slot and then follow up and plan something closer to the date.

 

[Police dog]

It really depends on a person. One time I met a girl, we had date in 2 weeks after. Then she was out of state for a whole month, we didn’t chat more than once a week for a couple messages and as soon as she came back she messaged me and asked if I was free tomorrow. There is so much random in all of these, so it’s really hard to have a specific strategy that would fit every single situation.

 

[Dragonetti]

I should note that I tend to date girls 18-25. I think this is a flakier / more distractable demographic

 

[Skills]

I should note that I tend to date girls 18-25. I think this is a flakier / more distractable demographic

all demos are flakey i would say one way around that is too maintain the contact till date with pings and texting..... but a general rule the farther away the greater the flake potential specially post 3 days, again the way around that keep in them engage till the meet...