What's wrong with my texts to Girls? Here's one example

[brunomcf]

So, I've beem meeting lots of girls on social events, and I seem to have a nice feedback from them at that time.
But when I get the number or facebook, they barelly reply back to me. And its happening more and more often.

Here's the example of last text sent last night for a girl I met through a friend on a party Saturday night:

"Hi Claudia!
Nice meeting you last Staurday at Breiner house party!
Let me know when you would like to drink some Vinho Verde with me.

Kisses"

I wounder if the text is that bad, or she just wasn't that into me that night and I misread all of it...

Thx guys!

 

[luego]

I don't like the "kisses". It's cutesy, not sexy.

Did you explicitly make plans with her to grab some wine this week or next? Or is this just an "out of the blue" shot she'd be at least somewhat surprised by?
"last Saturday" also implies that you waited over a week for an initial text. That's a LONG time.

 

[brunomcf]

The "Beijos/Kisses" at the end of any texts it's more of a cultural thing here in Portugal. And maybe it doesn't sound so cool to other cultures. She's from Romania (pretty cute), and may not have liked it.

We met on Saturday night and I texted her Sunday night. So, only one day later...

As she is doing the Erasmus Student's exchange program here in this city, she asked where I was from, and I told her I was from the "Vinho Verde Region". Then we started talking about it, and I kinda offered myself to get her some wine directly from the source. She seemed to love the idea, and said stuff like "I'll start chasing you for that Vinho Verde".

Could it be that my facebook profile sucks and once she saw it (pictures, wall post and son on...) lost her interest?
She saw the text this morning, she could still reply, but if really into me, she would have done already...

Thx

 

[Eric]

"Hi Claudia!
Nice meeting you last Staurday at Breiner house party!
Let me know when you would like to drink some Vinho Verde with me.

Kisses"

Into something more like this

Hey Claudia, was nice meeting you last saturday at the house party, let's grab a drink sometime.

or if you haven't talked in awhile

Hey Claudia, sorry I kinda disappeared my life has been a little too crazy lately, grab a drink with me

or if you're getting good vibes

Hey Claudia! Grab a drink with me

Shoot the text and then move on and start talking to new women. No conversation, no noise, no facebook, just forget about it.

Also, and I mean that's in general so don't shoot the same text but, there could be ANY reason for her not getting back to you. Wouldn't even waste mental space on it. She could have been kidnapped by the mafia, she could flat out not like you, she could like you but be nervous to text back right away, she could be on the fence, she could be underage and waiting, she could be having sex, she could be taking care of her sick grandmother, etc.

Learn to cut the noise and move onto new girls immediately. She'll get back to you (or not).

 

[brunomcf]

Yeap. Those texts sure look way shorter and more strict to the point.
I wanted to take advantage of the "rapport" creat around the Vinho Verde, but i guess that didn't really worked out.

There's a lot of new exchange Students from all over the world who just arrived in the city. They attend parties in discos everyday, so it's not dificult to find more beautifull girls.
This one was a 8.5/10 in a realistic scale, but more will come!

 

[GeneralFap]

Maybe your interaction didn't go as well as you thought it did? I think text game is pretty overrated in my opinion. I think that if a girl likes you it doesn't matter what you send her through text message, she will always reply. But if I had to guess what you did wrong, maybe it was that your text was a little too formal. Next time just send her a text message about something funny or crazy that happened between you and her last night, so she can reignite the emotions she had when she was spending time with you. If you joked about her not liking nachos that night just text her "Hey miss-I-don't-like-nachos " the next morning (stupid example, but you get the point).

 

[brunomcf]

Well, it seems this girl afterall is having something with the friend who introduced her to me, and he was nest to her and I texted her.
He was pissed because I tried to make a move on her, and before that another friend of him did the same.

He blames it on Portuguese man culture on atack everyone they see, but I think he should have stand his ground on that party. No one could tell they were together as there was no physical contact in between them.
Maybe he should stop acting like a beta male on that regard and get a tight leech on her.

Still, he deserves the credit for being able to get her!

 

[luego]

No one could tell they were together as there was no physical contact in between them.
Maybe he should stop acting like a beta male on that regard and get a tight leech on her.

He likely doesn't need to be pissed - but I'll disabuse of you the mindset that he's "beta" because he's not actively "claiming his territory". He's got the girl. There's no need for him to prance around actively protectively/defensively claiming his prize. THAT would be "beta".

 

[brunomcf]

I totally get ur point now. Overprotecting a girl would be too much beta.
But as he shown no sign he was with her, he should not be pissed.

The girl must be really into him, cause she didn't reply me or the other guy who tried to make a move.
He has nothing to worry about, he's got the skills to make her his girl.
Guess he just needs some more self confidence, and I need to pratice my game and seducton skills!


Ps: The guy is already 33 years old, with clear signs of aging, some withe hair and bodyfat above the average included in the package.
And he manages to grab a 21 year old hottie with so much competition! Dman, he's game must be good!