Sup man,
Here is my system.... in the past month and a half I have had 4 dates with one incoming tonight so barring anything out of the ordinary 5 dates... just so you can see the kind of results.
Pictures- 4
-Me in a peacot with a dog (not mine)
-Suit with v-neck with my buddy (looking professional and social proof.. he is also short so i look taller.
-Me with an ex...she is cropped out but enough to see half her face (showing i can get women)
-Playing soccer to show im active
The only adjustment I want to make on my picutes is to have my first picture be not looking at camera and/or smiling.
Opener
I pretty much always open with, "Hey XXX, how has tinder been treating you?" or a variation of that. Sometimes ill add a comment about one of her picutres, but i have been doing it less now. Why?
1. Every attractive girl gets tons of sexual openers, so most of the time they will complain and i can right off the bat position myself "us vs them" and different from the other generic fellas
2. I want to minimalize my effort at this point so sending the same thing decreases my time of investment. Colt reccomends music lyrics which im sure could increase my response rate if i put in the time.
Gaming
I have already established im different from other guys just by my opener.. the next step is to maintain the frame and DIFFERENTIATE. Make sure everything you do and say puts you to be different from other guys.
Be challenging. (Push and Pull)
- don't answer every question...."what is this an interrogation?
- if she makes a rediculous statement question it... easy men accept whateveer women say, strong men do not.
Gauge her investment.
- if she types a lot.. type a little more on your next response
-if she gives you a 5 word answer do the same.
- if she uses smiley's use them back.. it shows you are interested in her/
Transition
- obviously you want to do this on a high note and do it fast
I tend to play off my earlier challenges... if she keeps questions going " You just can't stop peppering me with questions.
I would feel more comfortable answeing this off tinder. If you still want to know text me xxx xxx xxxx
or
"Hey you seem pretty cool.. way to cool for tinder at least.. why don't we continue this conversation via text xxx xxx xxxx"
-not my line but it works
Then once on text it should be pretty easy to set up a date just transition from tindering to normal texting protocol
Other shit I do
Less essential stuff to my process but still part of it.
Because I'm pretty busy and i get my haircuts every other thursday
. I set up my dates for tuesday wednesday.. tinder thursday friday saturday or until i set up another date. Once i set a date I don't log tinder for 2 reasons:
-theres not point tindering if you don't have time in the next 4-5 days to set a date
- im sure girls check on how often you log on tinder so up until the first date I avoid it so she thinks she is special and to avoid flakes(this may make 0 difference at all but I havent had any tinder flakes so im not inclined to change lol)
-Brum
