Date Plans When a chick is not that into you?

[POB]

I'll go out on a limb here and say she needs a bit of a challenge to break out of her shell.
When the topic shifts to something more neutral, just shoot:
"I think it's a bit of a challenge dealing with super shy people.
Not because they are shy, but because they tend to spend too much time inside their own heads, which can look like disinterest.
What I mean is they are constantly missing out on the beauty of being present, and the amazing opportunities right in front of themselves!
Then they come home and begin to think about what they just have missed...(pause)...and kick themselves on the butt because of it.
I used to be like that in the past....and it hurted more than protected.
Because being that way is just a form of protection..thing is, too much protection can also mean avoiding the really good stuff, don't you think?"

 

[Skills]

James if this is the case i would work on bouncing her... That in itself is compliance... I would also try to micro escalate to polarize...if she is neutral to the micro keep going...

 

[James D]

James if this is the case i would work on bouncing her... That in itself is compliance... I would also try to micro escalate to polarize...if she is neutral to the micro keep going...

Yes, in retrospect, that seems like the way to go.

Good note on the micro.

I read 60's guide on micro but can't find it.

What's your go-to resource on micro?

 

[Skills]

Yes, in retrospect, that seems like the way to go.

Good note on the micro.

I read 60's guide on micro but can't find it.

What's your go-to resource on micro?

Is in one of the links of the post

The Complete guide to Physical game

Guys i decided to write this post cause if you are out on the field you notice social dynamics have changed a bit, we are going back to the future, in other words things are trending back to the past from clothes (baggy clothes from 90, shorts with sneaker showing socks from 80s etc...).... So...

www.skilledseducer.com

 

[Bill Juan]

Here is my special sauce :

Do the hug test .

As soon as you meet side Hug her.
Hug until she lets go . If it lasts less then 5 seconds you need to build more rapport and connection before escalating. It will also not be surprising if she needs another date before you have sex.

If it lasts more than five seconds focus heavily on escalation and try to pull as fast as possible.

 

[James D]

Here is my special sauce :

Do the hug test .

As soon as you meet side Hug her.
Hug until she lets go . If it lasts less then 5 seconds you need to build more rapport and connection before escalating. It will also not be surprising if she needs another date before you have sex.

If it lasts more than five seconds focus heavily on escalation and try to pull as fast as possible.

I'll give it a try!