When a girl ask about your sexual history?

[Dimes]

How do I respond to a girl if she asks how many partners I've had when I've had none?


If I ignore it won't she call me out on hiding something?


If I say the truth... My social proof will be zero. She will probably lose a lot of attraction. If she ask about my past gf... I never had one. What can I do?

 

[Ross]

Here's a bit of advice that Chase has always given out that has quite frequently worked perfectly:

- Tell her to guess
- Give a number slightly above her answer

Girls usually guess how many they think a sexually active man ought to have, and giving a number slightly above that shows that you aren't sex-crazy, but you're still more experience than "most guys".

One of the few times where we tell guys to flat out lie, because it is much, much easier to do so.

 

[Mr.Rob]

Here's a bit of advice that Chase has always given out that has quite frequently worked perfectly:

- Tell her to guess
- Give a number slightly above her answer

Girls usually guess how many they think a sexually active man ought to have, and giving a number slightly above that shows that you aren't sex-crazy, but you're still more experience than "most guys".

One of the few times where we tell guys to flat out lie, because it is much, much easier to do so.

That's intriguing that you recommend to lie about this such thing. I guess it makes sense to keep attraction spiked and then you'll be more inclined to act like you've slept with X number of girls.

My question is what would be the consequence if you did tell the truth? What if you told her you'd slept with 6 girls in your life and had one GF a while back. Would that cause her attraction to expire?

 

[TheWiseFool]

Re-read the article that Ross referenced, so definitely do that!

 

[NarrowJ]

It's not lying, it's flirting

 

[Atlas]

I agree with Ross about guessing. If she asks how many times I've had sex I Usually say something like "oh maybe once or twice " and say it with a tonality in your voice that implies you've done It much more than once or twice. It works very well for me and I've never had sex yet. Hope it helps
-Roy