When a girl doesn't hook..

[DarkKnight]

Howdy boys,

Sometimes you feel in you're gut that a girl is interested and you walk up to her to get a conversation starting, only for the girl to pre-emptively disengage. Now ofcourse plenty of times this happens because the girl is not that interested, but I also noticed that it happens when a girl IS actually interested but doesn't know how to continue. However pressing on when a girl turns her body away is bordering into neediness. My standard way of operating in these cases is to pull back and maybe use a little pre-selection (only a little since we assume that the girl already likes us here!) or just go on about my business while covertly keeping tabs on her buying temperature to try again later on. The thing is, this assumes that you have plenty of opportunity later on, which is not always the case. Sometimes you want to close a deal there and then.

How do you guys handle a dilemma such as this?

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

Sup dude!

I feel ya I know what ya mean. When she is interested but pulls away sometimes its out of ya control I recently got on great with a girl but she was half pulling away and I couldn't figure out why but it wasn't right yah? I found out later on that she had a boyfriend!! It didn't stop me because a didn't know if she did or how loyal she would be, turned out she was loyal. Long story short she ended up breaking things of with him and we hooked up for a little bit after but that isn't what this is!!

So yah, she might be *of Market* which ya might not turn around but ya cant win them all yah?!? Pressing on is borderline neediness but its also perserverence and shows that ya go for what ya want. Attraction Spike!! Sometimes ya need to push on and they will warm up, sometimes ya need to mirror them and go cold as not to reward there behaviour and watch them change. Read up on escalation ladders yah?? ya can move back down to punish bad behaviour and thats what it needs.

Theres not a sure fire way to fix this as each girl needs handling differently, ma process a follow is usually to press on, assume attraction and ignore the bullshit! Only look at positive movements forward. If she doesn't warm up to this i then come back down to punish her behaviour to let her know she can step up or a will step of. Read chase article on sexy body language and theres summit about an *Oh well* look, this can be used to tell her ya bout to up and leave and she might react to this. If not ya walk away, nothing more attractive than a guy who will walk away yah!!

If ya haven't turned it around and ya walk away, approach other girls and let her get curious. Maybe she'll meet ya again yah?? And if not its her loss! Ya gave her a chance.

Win some, lose some!!