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Hi Guys,
I noted from time to time. There will be girls entering the picture and it is pretty amazing how men's reactions are different when women enter the picture and how they abandon their craft and they try to "one up" the other.
So are u 'desperate' or 'trying too hard'? A lot of men don't like this question and women will enter social circles from time to time. (and a certain lady did enter our forums at one point in time.
Actually this is not so simple. I realize if i do not respond to women, it will be like "oh he thinks he is cool". And other men will try to "one up" you so that the girl will somewhat see. There is no really no conclusion to this except to move with the flow. There was a lady who commented on the auto rejection article and she mention humility. Humility is also a tool that can be used in the 'right way' and the 'wrong way'. Humility to maintain social harmony and increase your status is "devious" nevertheless, especially with a fucker who is lame and tries to "one up" you. Humility to steer women back into a conversation can be seen "underhand" as well... But you have to use it.
You have to see the level of social nuances that people have. Even the "most expert" level of tools you will used won't exactly work so well with stupid people because they are in fact, stupid. You have to use simple stuff that reflects them back and they will like you for it, sometimes. It can be a mindfuck by them too, although most people are not at this level. Always thread accordingly.
Thank you Chase. Thanks to you. I really see a lot of things, that without you, i be screwed left and right.
Zac
I noted from time to time. There will be girls entering the picture and it is pretty amazing how men's reactions are different when women enter the picture and how they abandon their craft and they try to "one up" the other.
So are u 'desperate' or 'trying too hard'? A lot of men don't like this question and women will enter social circles from time to time. (and a certain lady did enter our forums at one point in time.
Actually this is not so simple. I realize if i do not respond to women, it will be like "oh he thinks he is cool". And other men will try to "one up" you so that the girl will somewhat see. There is no really no conclusion to this except to move with the flow. There was a lady who commented on the auto rejection article and she mention humility. Humility is also a tool that can be used in the 'right way' and the 'wrong way'. Humility to maintain social harmony and increase your status is "devious" nevertheless, especially with a fucker who is lame and tries to "one up" you. Humility to steer women back into a conversation can be seen "underhand" as well... But you have to use it.
You have to see the level of social nuances that people have. Even the "most expert" level of tools you will used won't exactly work so well with stupid people because they are in fact, stupid.
You have to use simple stuff that reflects them back and they will like you for it, sometimes. It can be a mindfuck by them too, although most people are not at this level. Always thread accordingly.Thank you Chase. Thanks to you. I really see a lot of things, that without you, i be screwed left and right.
Zac
