When and how to make the talk sexual with a girl you just met.

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Say you're at a bar and you approach a girl you just met that night, how do you make that transition from asking her about herself to making that talk sexual and making it clear to her that you want to fuck her.

How overt should you be about it?

I am running game at bars in a college town, there is a chance I might see these girls again when school starts back up.

 

[ray_zorse]

I can give an example from last night. I was leaving an event (see my journal), and got to chatting with the event organizer outside the venue... I said something like, this is your business you are promoting tonight, she said yes, and I continued "also your husband?" ... subtly checking if she's single, well she isn't married though I gathered her bf may be around somewhere, unless she was joking. So I congratulated her on what a great event it was and how her potential customers could really get into the mood and see what they were signing up for, she agreed "it is great to have people come along and get some ideas"... I gave her intense eye contact and touched her shoulder "you are certainly giving me ideas"... later she said something like, the event was bigger last year but it was on a Saturday, this time we couldn't get a date"... same touch routine, I replied "I think you could get a date anytime". This is called sexual and chase framing. Does that get you thinking? These techniques easily transfer to club situation. She's on her phone -> you open "texting your boyfriend again"...

Ray

Note: There are many other ways to show intent. Get an FR up showing you getting comfortable with above techniques and I will give you some more, such as blockers, sexual vibe.

 

[ProblemSolving]

Say you're at a bar and you approach a girl you just met that night, how do you make that transition from asking her about herself to making that talk sexual and making it clear to her that you want to fuck her.

The simple answer is DON'T talk about sex - show her instead. You are going to lose a lot of girls by talking about sex before they are sufficiently aroused. By talking about sex, you pretty much spoil the ending of the movie for her, so why should she bother watching it?

So if you don't talk about sex, then how do you let her know you mean business? Easy - you let your hands do the talking and touch her. Actions speak much louder than words. Touching a girl creates trust AND arousal with very little effort on your part. I don't care if the girl is talking about mundane subjects like her job or whatever, if put my hand on a girl's leg and squeeze, she'll get the idea very quickly and she'll be happy to have found a guy that can lead and make things happen instead of a guy that's just going to talk the whole night.

The bar is one of the few environments where it is socially acceptable to get touchy, so dive in!