When are you too old for dating and relationships, too old to get a girlfriend?

[FeelIWastedMyYouth]

Most people will say it's never too late, or your never too old for this, or they will be like "once your dead", but honestly, I like to feel that teens, and 20's, early 30's, overall, especially 20's, are a mans sexual prime years for dating, relationships and sex, and I have sadly wasted most of them. I'm 27, almost 28 and never had a girlfriend, although i'm not a virgin, lost my virginity to a fat chubby girl, we did it only a few times, and then one other time with an escort. Plus I remember reading somewhere, I read on a forum, it was regarding a guy who missed out on a lot of sex in most of his 20's, one of the guys said to him "Jesus Christ. You already missed your prime in sex performance."

Another guy said "Really? So sex is not usually as enjoyable for men in their 30's as it is compared to 20's?" and the other guy responded back by saying "No its not. Not only we are more horny, our performance is way better too.

Women peak on sex after the mid 30's."

"You can research it. Its a known fact.

Sex performance or sex desires or sport performance or healthy are totally different things.

Testoterone goes down as you go older and it affects to your sex desires as well as sex performance.

Of course, every man has a different number.

Women in their late 30's early 40's are way hornier than women in their 20's."

That's what that guy says, I feel tempted to believe him.

 

[Thedoctor]

Re: When are you too old for dating and relationships, too old to get a girlfrie

FIWMY,

Age really is irrelevant. Everyone can have differing opinions about the age of sexual peaks and the expiration of attraction, but really, who cares? I'm older than you are and have zero desire to go back to being 17 years old. I don't feel that my sex drive or testosterone levels have changed either. If you're healthy and live an active lifestyle, your testosterone levels / sex drive levels won't lower all that much. If anything, if you get yourself in better shape, you'll find they'll probably feel the highest they've ever been, regardless of your age.

I want you to picture this: You're 58 years old, in the exact same boat as you are now. You've slept with one or two fatties, never had a solid relationship and you're miserable. You spend your time wallowing in the past thinking about how different things could have been. Instead of just "wasting your youth" you feel like you've wasted your entire life. We happen to run into each other at a bar and you tell me your story. I offer you a solution. I tell you I have a time machine that can go back thirty years. It will put you back into your 28 year old body and you'll get to relive the last 30 years of your life. Now how many people at 58 would kill for that chance? And you actually already have it.

Stop reminiscing about how things could have been different in your youth (as per your user name). You're still young. If you don't snap out of that cycle of living in the past now, you really will be that 58 year old in the story. All of the info on this site will help you become a better version of yourself. Stop wasting time asking about hypotheticals on random forums. And start making the changes to yourself to live the life you want.

-John

 

[FeelIWastedMyYouth]

Re: When are you too old for dating and relationships, too old to get a girlfrie

My dick gets smaller every time I read one of your posts OP

Isnt there a better forum for you to whine like a little bitch? Want to hang out here? Start a fucking journal and approach every fucking day. Be a man. I feel I wasted my 4 goddamn minutes making this useless post trying to encourage a a poor little baby victim of life to grow some goddamn balls and take some goddamn action. I almost cried while reading your sob story for the umpteenth time.

Radeng

man guys like you I wish I could make you squeal like a puppy as I break your fuckin' neck!, guys who have the mindset, mentality, that a guy lacks balls, is a not a real Man who whines, rants, complains, doesn't take responsibility, why? because i'm a guy who has always hated, despised, detested, loathed the rules, standards of masculinity, on how life, society, culture, expects us guys to god damn toughen it up all the damn time!!!, always hated life, reality for being that way, on the cards you were dealt with for being born male.

 

[Rage]

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OP, I hope if anyone of authority on here sees your post above towards radeng that they kick you off the boards.

You built your whole profile and all your posts are based solely upon being a victim and finding others who agree with you and can validate that within you more.

Why do you stay on these boards? Why don't you just leavr?

The guys on here are interested in self improvement. You're not gonna find many other victimized guys like you on here. You are interested in complaining and pointing fingers at how life has fucked you, and trying to say that it fucks all guys like that so that you can feel better.

Your life sucks because you made it suck and you never took action. The day you begin to take action is he day that begins to slowly change. But complaining never gives you that. I don't think you'll do that though; or you don't seem on that road to improvement from what you have to say.

I suggest you leave these boards and go to an MRA board; there are plenty of other butthurt guys on there just like you and you can enjoy jerking each other off there.

All the best

Rage

 

[Franco]

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FIWMY has been banned for incessant whining.

He was already warned in this post here.

We only need positive, improvement-minded people on these boards. Sorry about the trouble, fellas!

Thanks,

Franco

 

[JimmyB]

Re: When are you too old for dating and relationships, too old to get a girlfrie

Man, that guy was pathetic.

Be a man. I feel I wasted my 4 goddamn minutes making this useless post trying to encourage a a poor little baby victim of life to grow some goddamn balls and take some goddamn action. I almost cried while reading your sob story for the umpteenth time.

Radeng you pretty much voiced my opinion for me lol

 

[Thedoctor]

Re: When are you too old for dating and relationships, too old to get a girlfrie

Not sure that I remember reading his other posts.

Oh well, I tried.

-John

 

[Drck]

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Don't know why FIWMY deserves to be banned, haven't read everything. IMO unless there are some insults there is no reason for that.

Most of us are here because we have or used to have some screwed up belief system, incorrect mindset that lead us to failure with women. It takes time to develop and apply new belief system, it doesn't happen overnight. Sometimes it is better when others help us to see our mistakes, that way we can realize them and move on...

When a guy is 27 and whines that he has missed his youth, there is obviously some problem. What are you going to do when you hit 30's? 45? 60? Say you are 40 today - are you still going to complain that you didn't get laid when you were 21? That just doesn't make sense... Time doesn't stop for any of us, life goes on no matter what we do...

We can't live in the past, we got to move on. With little luck most of us be here till our 80's, some 90's. With advances modern medicine, who knows, some younger guys here may even live to 100-120's. Who knows?

We have to think long term. If you are 25-30 years old today, you got the potential of 50+ more years to go. If you take care of your mental and physical health, you can have productive life till your 70's, maybe 80's. That is 40, maybe 50 years to go...

So who cares what you've screwed up in your early 20's? Who cares that you didn't get laid in college? Who cares that you didn't lose your virginity till you got to your 30's? There is still plenty of time to go, you can still have say 4 decades of fucking... Take these past years as lessons of life, learn from them as much as you can, go over all the mistakes you made - and move on...

To learn new skills might take you couple of years. If you are an average guy with average social skills, IMO you can be quite good with women within 3 years, if not sooner. All you have to do is read some articles on GC and APPLY. Will you be the best seducer? Probably not. But you could be pretty good, 50x better than today...

All you have to do is leave the past in the past. Nobody can change our past, it's gone, and it will never come back... But we can change future. For most of us, future doesn't change overnight either, we have to take little steps, day by day... starting today...


So back to your question - are you too old for when you hit 60's? How about 70's? IMO you are not, you are only as old as you think you are...

 

[mb1]

Re: When are you too old for dating and relationships, too old to get a girlfrie

Luckily we as men can become more authoritative and experienced in everything as time goes on, increasing attractiveness to women, who simply lose their reproductive potential.

Most guys of the modern age who've yet to train the body could also likely get their testosterone higher now than it ever was during their 'peak', and this has a huge impact on general energy and sex drive.

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

Re: When are you too old for dating and relationships, too old to get a girlfrie

I was off the boards for a little while so I didn't get to chime in on this one.

So back to your question - are you too old for when you hit 60's? How about 70's? IMO you are not, you are only as old as you think you are...

Drck is correct. I just found GC at 56. It has made a big difference in my life. The motivation is to get girls of course but the side benefits have been awesome. I have revamped my life which you can read about in my journal if you are interested. The point is I may be the oldest guy here on the forum but you won't hear me whining, I hope. I figure I have another 25 to 30 years. I might as well be screwing young women if I can.

One point which I have made in past post so I repeat myself, a lot of younger women, 18 to 30, find older guys attractive if they have their shit together. It is true. I am living proof and I am not any where near as good looking as Sean Connery or George Clooney.

FIWMY has more issues than being a whiner. If you look at his posts there is a significant bent towards violence along with his victim mentality. Franco warned him before. Adios dude.

man guys like you I wish I could make you squeal like a puppy as I break your fuckin' neck!,

I will admit, sometimes I feel so bitter and resentful, angry, jealous, that I feel like beating up a girls boyfriend out of jealousy and anger, jealous, envious of him because he has the girl I want.

I don't see why fighting can prove a guy is a man, he has balls, because fighting is an act of aggression, and that involves testosterone, and testosterone is the dominant male hormone. Plus, since I have a penis, penis means aggression, penetrating, punching is a form of aggression, so that's another logical reason as to why fighting is a masculine thing. Plus many male animals fight during the mating season over the girl they want, and the winner gets the girl, I don't see why us humans can't be that way, unfortuneately we have to rely on our social-skills, conversation-skills, the way we talk, body-language, life-style, career and finances in order to be attractive.

"We men get to choose who we seduce, whereas women have no choice but to make themselves as marketable as possible with makeup etc, and then hope for the best. In my current mindset, I'm absolutely loving being a man and having complete control over the process. All the women I know, hate having no control."

It pisses me off whenever people say that, because women ULTIMATELY HAVE THE GOD DAMN FINAL FUCKIN' SAY!!!!!, they are always in the position of just having to say yes or no things, you can't force a woman to follow your lead against her will. That's why it often pisses me off because NO MAN HAS THE DIVINE RIGHT TO HAVE A WOMAN IN HIS LIFE!!!, I HATE HOW WOMEN DO NOT OWE ME ANYTHING, HOW I AM NOT ENTITLED TO ANYTHING FROM WOMEN!!.

SGent