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Hi guys,
Here's a new one.
I've been spending a lot of time on "me" lately. I have a new group of friends (a few groups infact), I am interacting and being social when out at the bar, I've tweaked my look and things are all going in the right direction (ALWAYS lots of room to still improve of course but I'm trying to learn to be positive for the things I HAVE achieved and not get myself down of what I have not yet.)
So the more social I appear in these settings, the more girls actually approach me! Obviously it's not like every girl does this (wouldn't that make life so much easier, haha!) but it happens occasionally.
Can anyone offer advice in dealing with these girls though? I know, it sounds like it should be SIMPLE but I've found 2 types of girls:
1. The shy girl, she'll walk up and ask some silly question. I'll smile and answer and then she starts to run away... it's the equivelent of a guy starting out. He's got his opinion opener but doesn't know how to follow through.
The result is to keep them in set, they act nervous and embarrassed and to keep them next to you, usually you need to almost chase after them saying "Come back... come back!", but I don't want to literally chase her.
2. The VERY confident girl. These girls also usually ask a question or more than likely offer a compliment. They don't run away however, they usually stay and play up their sexy vibe... but since they know they have given away all power straight away... immediately act like they are not interested or are really hard to get. These girls seem ultimately easier to get... you can break down the shield since you KNOW she likes you but just being a cool guy... but it can still be difficult.
Here's a new one.
I've been spending a lot of time on "me" lately. I have a new group of friends (a few groups infact), I am interacting and being social when out at the bar, I've tweaked my look and things are all going in the right direction (ALWAYS lots of room to still improve of course but I'm trying to learn to be positive for the things I HAVE achieved and not get myself down of what I have not yet.)
So the more social I appear in these settings, the more girls actually approach me! Obviously it's not like every girl does this (wouldn't that make life so much easier, haha!) but it happens occasionally.
Can anyone offer advice in dealing with these girls though? I know, it sounds like it should be SIMPLE but I've found 2 types of girls:
1. The shy girl, she'll walk up and ask some silly question. I'll smile and answer and then she starts to run away... it's the equivelent of a guy starting out. He's got his opinion opener but doesn't know how to follow through.
The result is to keep them in set, they act nervous and embarrassed and to keep them next to you, usually you need to almost chase after them saying "Come back... come back!", but I don't want to literally chase her.
2. The VERY confident girl. These girls also usually ask a question or more than likely offer a compliment. They don't run away however, they usually stay and play up their sexy vibe... but since they know they have given away all power straight away... immediately act like they are not interested or are really hard to get. These girls seem ultimately easier to get... you can break down the shield since you KNOW she likes you but just being a cool guy... but it can still be difficult.
