When girls call you not one on one

[duncanmcloud]

So, I am 27 and I am not inexperienced, but this year this thing happened to me twice- I am confused.

So the first girl (she is 19), I've met her in a club, got her phone, we texted a bit, but when I called her she was bitchy, I teased her a bit, and after that I decided to next her. She called me like 3-4 weeks from the first call and was pleasant and asked me to come to her place to a birthday party, I said OK if there was alcohol and brought a friend. On the party to cut things short, my friend got extremely wasted, so I had to take him home (he wanted to drive home ). At that moment she tried to make me stay, and we made out and she bit my lip and said she had a boyfriend on this day last year. We were not alone and I had to take my friend home so I said to her I would really like to stay but I have to go.
The next day we met at her place and watched a movie, we made out but when I touched her on her back (and took my hand lower) she said that she had operated her spine and that it was itchy? So I backed off a bit and she asked me multiple times of my past relationships- I said I had both short term and long term. At one moment her roommate came back, so I wanted to leave, and she wanted me to stay and sleep at her place (roommate on the bed downstairs it is a duplex). So I slept with her, tried 3 times (two before sleep and once in the morning) and she did not want even to take her clothes off.
The next day she asked me to come for a drink with her friends to her place and I refused, and in the course of the next 2 weeks she called me two more times, and I did not go. She told me she wanted to get married in a joking manner but I think that is what she wants, so OK- probably she wants to game me, but I still don't understand calling me with her (girl)friend present.

 

[duncanmcloud]

The second girl it was in march (she is 18). Met her over facebook, she gave me her number fast, met her on the next day. She is a oneitis

D1: We talked for 3 hours, touched each other and kissed when the waitress threw us from the coffee shop. I texted her I had a good time (because I saw she was a bit inexperienced and clumsy when we kissed).

D2: The next day she called me to come to a coffee shop right next to my place and she said she is with her best friend (and only female friend)? At first I said I am at lunch, but she kept on asking me for the next two hours so I eventually went, we made out in front of her friend teenage style After that we texted the whole night she said: "You are mine." I did not respond.

D3: She asked me to come to a college party at a club, she and her friends had a table reserved, she asked me to come like a 1000 times and said she will wear a red dress so I thought what the.. and went. She introduced me to her friends like I was her boyfriend. We made out the whole night, at one moment I got drunk and almost fucked her in front of everyone, she then told me to calm down. At the end we lost our wardrobe number so our jackets got stuck and we left her best friend to wait until 7 A.M. to get them. I left with her in a taxi but she was bitchy and annoyed and her mom called so I did not invite her home.

D4: She called me to get my jacket at her friends home so I refused, I said I don't have a car today and tomorrow she again proposed to meet with her and her best friend Maria. I had no choice- I went to a coffee shop to get the jacket. Then she asked me to come to a concert of a singer I don't even know about with her a her friend and I refused and laughed. Then I deleted her number. 3-4 days later she texts me and we talk a bit.

D5: I ask her over sms "what do you want from me", and she asks me "how do you see me", I respond with "You are a girl that I like and spend time with", and she says she wanted to be my girlfriend but this is not a relationship by her standard?? So I said come to meet me live without the bodyguard and we met.
She then said to me that she wanted a non-serious relationship, and showed me an app "Sex calendar" I thought to myself wtf and she explained to me she had sex for the first time 6 months ago and showed me that at first they had sex like 3 times a week, then it got to a lesser extent and at the end he left her and she was hurt. Then she asked me about my relationships and experience, I said I do not sleep with everyone and joked she was my first. She told me (and showed me on the calendar ) she has her period today and at the end she grabbed me and kissed me and bit me on the lip, I did not ask her to come home to my place (because of her period and her mom calling her )

D6: Then she calls me to say she will pick me up, and when I got out of my building she calls again and she says "Maria will be with us". So I decide I will flirt with her friend and tease her the whole time, which I did and she got mad and bitchy. They basically said to me that my oneitis does not believe I want her as a girlfriend- I did not explain anything I just teased them. Maria, the girlfriend said she had 6 sexual partners by now (she is 18, her first was at 16 ) and my oneitis said she lied and that she had 2 and that both of then wanted her for sex and that she is hurt. Then I joked if they had sex with each other, and Maria said "Yes, with each other and a dog- it was a threesome" At the end, they drove me home, and Maria said my oneitis is nervous today and me not to worry?

D7: I met her in a coffee shop and she made a scene, because I was late and bit off her silicone fake nails in front of me and threw them around, then she went to hot and pleasant again and I ended the "date" quickly, at the end she said she is not mad anymore??

So any ideas, what went wrong and the "3some" date thing- it is a new thing to me.