LR When in Poland.... Fuck their women

[thedude]

It’s good to finally break through and Poland is a fun place and so are the women there…

Currently I am studying abroad in Germany and while there I have been going to neighboring countries and seeing Europe in all its glory. Travelling is truly an awesome thing.
I was going to Amsterdam but I fucked up the flight and so decided to head to Poznan Poland which is only a 3 hour train ride from Berlin where I study.
When I got there I soon learned a couple of things….

1. Polish women are damn good looking, even the average ones are awesome imo
2. They are absolutely down for Foreigners, I lost track at the amount of looks I got

Onto the report….
It happened on the last day of my stay in Poznan. I had been meeting women all week but because of the glitches in my game I lost multiple opportunities (2 back to my hotel, multiple makeouts and a go nowhere set)

Friday night when the 2nd girl who I brought back didn’t fuck me, I sent Zphix a message and his response basically made think hard/analyze everything I had down over the past couple of days. Before this I would somewhat/vaguely go over rejections/failures and try new things but this time I went through the entire GC book and evaluated each interaction and how I handled things. I learned that I wasn’t recognizing shit tests and a decent amount of other things. I would rectify it on Saturday.

Saturday- daytime

I go at around to the Poznan city Center(train station/mall) to see if I it is good for daygame and boy do I feel stupid. This place is literally filled with hot polish chicks. I felt like an idiot for not going to this place every single day but I digress……I start opening girls, some rejections, some go nowhere until I meet this Hungarian chick named Veronica.
I direct open her with something simple like telling that she is cute or something like that. I then remember to banter and immediately after the questions about myself fly in. I answer them and like the rest her eyes light up when I say I am from America.

The rest is simple, a couple to get to know questions and I ask her if she has any plans later. She is meeting her friends for dinner at five so I give her my name so she can FB friend request me and go back to approaching.

I forget about her until she sends the Friend request on FB and the convo goes as follows
Me: Hey Veronika! Hope dinner was good I had Italian at Piccolo's and it was great But hey we should chill tonight, would you want to meet at Pijalnia and go from there?
Veronica: Hey! Okey ıt would be nıce We're goıng to Pıjalnıa around 10pm ıs ıt good for you? 0036306057916 ıst my phone number
Me: Ok, I'll see you around then

What stood out to me was that she gave me her number without me even asking so I had a good feeling that it was on

10 pm Lead up
The great thing about Poznan is that it is small so you can walk everywhere and pretty much every bar/chill spot/ club is within a couple minutes walk away.
I decide that I need to get some social momentum/observations so I start hitting up all the chill bars where people hang out. The day before I had met this Canadian dude named Max at the Bar Pijalnia. This guy cleans up and he gives me some useful pointers.

One of them was to literally just make eye contact and smile, I can’t believe I had not been doing this but when I started the results were great as you will see. I hit up a bunch of different bars until I enter one basically called The Proletariat.

This bar had a wicked Communist theme with all this Commy memorabilia, I thought it was pretty cool. Anyway as I am exploring(it was quite large) and heading to the back I lock eyes with this red/short haired girl. I smile and she smiles back, passes me and heads into the bathroom.

Ok, I need to talk to this girl, so I post up where I think she is going to pass when she heads back. I just check my phone/look around until she starts walking in my direction. Then doing what I saw Max do with a girl last night and what the GC book says to do I grab her hand and ask her…

Me: Hey, how’s your night going!
Her: Great(send in deadpan tone with deadpan facial expression)
Me: Wow, you look like your having a fantastic night (Sarcasm)

We exchange pleasentries/some get to know questions(her name is Maria) and she invites me to sit with her and her 2 friends. We head over, she introduces me and I start talking with her friends and her. While talking to them I learn….

-Maria, her friend Sara are Croation while Evina is Serbian- Serbian and Croation are basically the same language and a bunch of other fun stuff. During this I talk with Maria and use the push-pull phrase from the GC Book”I like you, you’re good people but don’t get any ideas, Im not easy ” and she likes it.
I also handle their test well when they ask me how old I am. Since they(23-24) are all older than me(21) I use self depreciation and say

ME: Well I’ll have you know I just grew my first chest hair, pretty proud of myself

They all laugh and I tell them I am 21.
After talking about a whole range of fun topics I decide that a even though there might be something with the short haired Croation(Maria) I should go find Veronica at Pigalnia(it was 10:30). So I say good bye and head over.

Pigalnia
I enter Pigalnia and Veronica is sitting with her two Turkish friends immediately to the right. She introduces me and everything is going damn well from the get go. I have Turkish friends and I’ve been to Istanbul so I am able to develop a connections with the two Turkish friends easily.

With Veronica I compliment her on pearl bracelet and she responds very well that. I also corrected how I relate with travel experiences, for example….

Girl: I’ve been to Budapest
Me: Oh! I’ve been to place, place and place……. WRONG WRONG WRONG!

Fixed convo
Veronica: I’ve been to/want to go to Rome
Me: That’s awesome, I think traveling is a great thing and everyone should get a chance to experience seeing the world
Her: Yea, where have you been? ---Ding ding ding Right!

I realized I had been doing this(not accepting womens values and being explicit with my value(bragging) so I changed it up and accepted her value/ used the baiting technique from the GC book)
During this I also excuse myself to go chat with Max who is once again chilling at Pigalnia where I first met him. I learn he picked up some Polish chick yesterday on the street and chilled with her when the other girl he was supposed to meet flaked haha.
Anyway I head back to Veronica and tell her we should get out of here to go explore. She agrees and we say good bye to her friends. While walking outside she asks me where we are going, I say

Me: To a place with cheap drinks and good music
Her: Where?
Me: You’ll see

I walk her to my hotel and we head upstairs, all the while talking about our preferences for the seasons or whatever. I ask her to take off her shoes and we get comfortable on my bed. I take a piss, so does she and before 10 minutes is up I put my hand under her chin and kiss her.

No resistance what so ever with anything. Actually, I didn’t take note at the time but she had really nice underwear on. She was also really wet when I started fingering her.
Anyway the rest is my trying to have sex but after 5 months of inaction my ED has reared its ugly head once more. I am physically fine but mentally I think it has to do with… porn, anxiety and me just not enjoying sex as I do it now.
So this is something I gotta work on and fix some way shape or form….

Thanks for reading!
-CJ

 

[ray_zorse]

Nice work mate, I love PL too. It's been years tho (like a decade) and when I was there ppl didn't speak English so good (although with zero game or knowledge of GC I approached a woman with the line "would you like to dance" which my host mother had helpfully taught me, looking back I can't believe it took me GC to get approaching for real)... I guess since everyone's been learning EN at school since the wall came down the situation would have improved.

Yeah my last lay wasn't a lay due to ED/performance anxiety, shit happens, you aren't alone, just follow procedure and pull lots more women and don't watch porn and the issue will resolve once you collect some positive reference experiences. Also check out my FR "badly wanted to fill that tasty pussy" b/c Chase posted some links to articles.

Love Poznan. As you say it's pretty compact. I was staying in Pila which is about 40min train ride from there. Keen to go back and do some approaching! How tall and gorgeous are those East European babes...

cheers, Ray

 

[Motiv]

Hey CollegeJunior,

I too have experienced a similar situation to you when it comes to my arousal during penetration. I'm fortunate enough to say I have never suffered from ED in any physical sense (gf says I have the stamina of a horny teenager). On the other hand however, I occasionally have serious issues psyching myself out, particularly once my girl is at the peak of her own climax. I may as well have gone limp because my desire suddenly vanishes in a heartbeat, and she can tell, despite my still being hard, that my excitement has disappeared.

The best way I have been able to counter this effect is through shear willpower. Since it sounds like your issue too is psychological, I think you (like me) have to focus on letting go and indulging in the feelings in your own body (like Drexel said). In particular, you should try to feel the pride of your conquest when you're inside a girl, knowing that your dominant masculinity will make her climax even stronger, which in turn will make you feel like even more of a man. Embrace the drama of the moment!

I went from not being able to cum the first several months of sex to having (and giving) earth shattering orgasms. I still struggle with this off and on once in a while, so it's something men like us just have to buckle down and never take for granted.

As Drexel says, we need to take our essential manhood back!

Cheers,
-MP

 

[thedude]

@ray_zorse - Thank you for the reply and the advice dude. On the East european babes.... The best imo. I prefer them over Germans any day, I kind of wish I would have studied in Prague or Poland! Also I definitely want to travel east and to the balkans/check those areas out since their women are beautiful and it is so cheap!

@MischiefPlayer - It is nice to hear that I am not alone. Thank you for the advice as well and with practice/diligence I am sure it can be beat!!