Hey man. First off, congratulations on getting your medical degree. Got mine earlier this year as well.
There's good news: Being a doctor is great for pua. So many ways to spin it. You're struggling to come up with ideas because you don't understand the underlying psychology WHY seduction techs work.
Before I give you a few pointers, there's a slight drawback of falling into provider territory. It's the biggest issue. But there are ways to build up your lover persona as well (as you'll see below)
Anyways, here a few ways to spin the doctor thing:
--- Injecting some flirtatious humor. You haven't specialised yet so you can just say "I'm an oral surgeon" (dentist). The vibe should be flirty and make her guess what you mean. Here's a conversation I had with a girl:
Me: I'm an oral surgeon
Her: huh what? Oral?(*smiling)
Me: yeah.. you should see the smile on their face after I'm done with them
Her: are you serious right now (*trying hard not to laugh with a mischievous look)
Me: why you looking at me like that (*strong eye contact, playfully )
Her: well I mean you said you're an oral surgeon. Not sure what you mean.. like a dentist or something else (*smiling and stumbling over her words like she got caught)
Me: Something else? Like what? (*pretending not to understand)... oh I see where your mind is going... bla bla
Then you take it off from there. My friend that are dentists are having a field day with these kinds of humor. I barely do them because 1) I specialised into something else 2) don't wanna be one trick pony
Other flirty things you can try are: a check up etc. Sometimes girls will flirt with you "doc what do you think I should do about this and this" etc
--- Setting a non-judgmental frame. As a doctor you're probably how vital being non judgmental when clients come to you. Not only does it help you in your practice with better diagnosis (and discovering unspoken problems) it brings you closer to the human side of people. You can tell her how experiencing different personalities has given you a deeper sense of openness. How you pay attention to each clients so you discover their wants, needs... how you create a space where they can feel comfortable to open up about deeper parts of themselves... and the beauty of it is you've noticed how your relationships are better because of this
---- Empathy and connection with women. You can also talk about how listening to female clients made you connect more with women in your life.
This is particularly true for me. I remember being posted to obstetrics and gynaecology unit and seeing the pain/struggles women went through. How it felt when they could open and trust me with secrets even their partners knew nothing about.
You can contrast the feeling of excitement when these women feel relieved. Pin point stories in your practice that talk about connection
--- Sexual frames
When I was a med student I was posted to the delivery room for 3 months with 5 others. 2 guys. 3 girls. During our very first delivery.... all the girls were so excited when the baby came out (a boy). However one girl was excited almost to the point of being horny.... she hugged me tightly said "Omg Paulie this is so beautiful... I can't wait to have mine"
Both her and another girl then proceeded to make jokes about me putting babies in them. I was like wtf. Of course I knew this experience was good pua material. And girls LOVE with when I use it. (It's also important to keep an eye out for experiences in practice than can be good pua material)
Another thing you can do is use anatomy of the female body parts to talk about orgasm and pleasure.
You can also talk about how women have hidden desires and fantasies just like they have secrets. Case in point ... I remember attending to a patient. She presented because she was having difficulty conceiving. As I asked her questions nothing seemed off. I was thinking hard trying to figure out what the problem was.... then she opened up that she doesn’t enjoy sex with her husband. And they only have sex once a month. Now, you know how the ovulation cycle is. It will be hard as hell for her to get pregnant. So I had to counsel her and get consent to inform her husband
When i tell this story I transition into how men dont understand women's bodies and how being a doctor has helped me see desires women have. My personality is flirty and humorous so sometimes I add a bit of humor too
Like I said, there are MANY ways. Girls are always curious about our experiences. Just pick the exciting and emotionally stimulating parts.. And the best part? They see you as an authority
