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Swati

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hi day game, I'm back :D

eh, inside the grocery store, I approached her asking where the bank was located because the location was super hidden. There was interest and lingering, also with the fact she kept asking me questions whenever possible. I offered to buy her lunch in return for the advice she gave, but SHE ended up buying me ice cream. It tasted good :)

I got her contact after she offered to help if things didn't work out, which it did.

when we were parting ways, I asked her

"do you have a boyfriend"

her: "no I don't "

":D"

I'd messaged her, here and there, keeping the window open. I refrain from asking girls out immediately. 2-3 days in between I message her and wait for the response. The whole ordeal took about 10 days to get her out again.

I liked her innocence, she's the same age as me, social frame-wise she has less inhibition about sex even with less experience.

We're the same zodiac sign, I was way ahead of her intelligence in the horoscope, having Vedic and Western knowledge, our 2nd and 3rd languages. For sure she found that to be attractive, and my fundamentals.

(I'm not posting a texting sequence. You guys should refer to elders. I don't have the best method)

Got her out again on the 7th to 8th day after getting the number, we met she offered to pay. I, of course said "no", I paid for it. sat down let her run her mouth about the details of the coffee, blah blah blah, I'm like half listening. I told her

me: "There's such a difference between girls and guys about the interest of what they like(referring to the details of the coffee)"

This above could have been a gambit to be using, I used it without thinking too much about it.

we sat down at the park, then talked for a long time, went for another walk and sat down on a bench, I escalate...

At some point I was bored, and a lot of opened windows for escalation, silence, etc, I was tired and I knew I should establish a sexual frame first before pulling back mine because my flat is quite small and has no transitioning area. when she wouldn't stop playing with her hair I just went to kiss her, made out for a bit, and seeded for my place twice, she gave me token resistance and tried again later in like 10 minutes.

At some points when there are silence or escalation windows, I'd kino her lightly or hard, touching hair, pulling her hair(playfully hard)<--- Don't do this if you are unsure.

she was very inexperienced, 3 partners before.

LMR, if I pushed 100% force it would have caused LMR or try to reason with her about it. I stopped escalating and let her settle down and restarted in like 10-15minutes. I wouldn't consider this LMR but I could see uncalibrated escalation could cause them to put the breaks. So the dog and pony show went on for about 15 minutes after I pulled. I guide her hand to my cock, then....

she said I didn't have to worry about a relationship with her since she was the least experienced between us. I appreciate her.

it's always these day game girl you get, you feel bad because they are inexperienced you likely end up potentially hurting their feelings. Anyway, she hasn't had sex in over a year, I'm glad I was able to give her the service.

still get messages from her, but I don't know we will see where it goes.
 

Chase

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Back at it!

Beating the dip.

eh, inside the grocery store, I approached her asking where the bank was located because the location was super hidden. There was interest and lingering, also with the fact she kept asking me questions whenever possible. I offered to buy her lunch in return for the advice she gave, but SHE ended up buying me ice cream. It tasted good :)

Nice girl :)

We're the same zodiac sign, I was way ahead of her intelligence in the horoscope, having Vedic and Western knowledge, our 2nd and 3rd languages. For sure she found that to be attractive, and my fundamentals.

Some good old fashioned chick crack there..

she was very inexperienced, 3 partners before.

LMR, if I pushed 100% force it would have caused LMR or try to reason with her about it. I stopped escalating and let her settle down and restarted in like 10-15minutes. I wouldn't consider this LMR but I could see uncalibrated escalation could cause them to put the breaks. So the dog and pony show went on for about 15 minutes after I pulled. I guide her hand to my cock, then....

she said I didn't have to worry about a relationship with her since she was the least experienced between us. I appreciate her.

it's always these day game girl you get, you feel bad because they are inexperienced you likely end up potentially hurting their feelings. Anyway, she hasn't had sex in over a year, I'm glad I was able to give her the service.

still get messages from her, but I don't know we will see where it goes.

Yeah, you'll get those.

Best you can do is try to set proper expectations. And hope that's enough so she doesn't get hurt.

If she's the willful type or the romantic type to some degree she will just ignore the expectations you set anyway and convince herself that she will 'win you over'.

The most important thing you can do from the point you're at is just be careful not to see her too frequently and avoid doing GF-BF stuff with her, unless and until you decide that's what you want.

Good to see you break that dry spell!

Chase
 

Swati

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yo Chase ;)

warmer weather is coming in, it's just more easier. This was a lazy number exchange, usually don't do day game but this one just fell on my lap. Got a taste of a "normal" girl

you can do is try to set proper expectations. And hope that's enough so she doesn't get hurt.
I'm more of whore fucker with a kind heart, I guess hahahaha. thanks for the article!
Some good old fashioned chick crack there..
I was diving deep into these topics way before my PU days. Comes in handy now :)
 

Skills

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Good lr, i got something out of it, that is when i consider good...

For me the take away is how out of getting directions, you flipped into... "You gave me directions the least i could do for your work buy lunch" frame, to gauge interest...I can use stuff like that in many different ways, never thought about this... Good stuff.... something i will be using...
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

Swati

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Good lr, i got something out of it, that is when i consider good...

For me the take away is how out of getting directions, you flipped into... "You gave me directions the least i could do for your work buy lunch" frame, to gauge interest...I can use stuff like that in many different ways, never thought about this... Good stuff.... something i will be using...
That's great. sometimes these innovations and useful tools are just you going through the motion of what you think is going to get you the close. glad you it's useful, I will note it too.
 
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