Hey guys, I've met 4 really cute girls and have dates lined up for this week and later next week. I'm well aware and in total agreement of the theory behind "moving fast" but I have a STI known as molluscum contagiosum (got it from a girl I got with earlier in the month). You contract it from skin to skin contact and is a nuisance until you get it removed. I've been to the doctor about four times since I first got it, and it's not safe to have sex with someone until all the bumps are gone. So my question is how to not lose these girls by "moving t0o slow" since I don't want to have sex with them until my STI is completely gone. Any help is appreciated, these dates are coming very soon!
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If the activity for the date isn't set yet, I suggest making them quick, informational dates only, like at a local café or sandwich joint:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/date-templates-minimize-confusion-maximize-returns
You can probably get away with doing a couple of these with each girl, so that will give you a couple of weeks.
I think most people here will suggest not kissing and instead waiting until your STI clears and you can take them back home. This is probably the best way in order to increase sexual tension and to not be boyfriended too soon -- because of no sex.
However, I personally think you should go for the kiss. That may give you more wiggle room to wait without attraction dying. Do the spontaneous, quick kiss on the lips. And if she enjoys it, do a longer kiss. On an informational date, I think it's too hard to pull off a longer, romantic kiss initially.
https://www.girlschase.com/content/date-templates-minimize-confusion-maximize-returns
You can probably get away with doing a couple of these with each girl, so that will give you a couple of weeks.
I think most people here will suggest not kissing and instead waiting until your STI clears and you can take them back home. This is probably the best way in order to increase sexual tension and to not be boyfriended too soon -- because of no sex.
However, I personally think you should go for the kiss. That may give you more wiggle room to wait without attraction dying. Do the spontaneous, quick kiss on the lips. And if she enjoys it, do a longer kiss. On an informational date, I think it's too hard to pull off a longer, romantic kiss initially.
