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This is something i covered in other post but not quite so i am going to make a kind of clarification/troubleshoot post....
If you soft close a girl and she does not bite, she knows what you are doing and she is playing stupid to save face and avoid an uncomfortable situation, a lot of girls don't like to reject.... examples:
- you soft close and she pretends she did not see the soft close and changes topics.
- you soft close and she goes silent and opens with a different convo. thread
- she gives you a really weak vague reaction to soft close.
^ my point is the girl is not autistic, she knows was sup, she knows what you are doing, she is not there yet. Or she is not invested enough, or she has other prospects ahead of you, or she is just busy, or she just don't want to reject you and is giving you indirect hints... But that is not our problem you need to solve it....
So i am going to give you different samples of this:
me: You should take a break from that hard work and go dancing with a sexy latin man...
hb: uhmmmm
^ she is giving me nothing to work on... Depending on the situation I need to go back and cont. banter and get a more cornering soft close, or i have to corner her (not ideal to corner but useful in situations when you either want to polarize due to time constraint such as traveling, or you want to polarize cause you want a definite in or out, cause you don't want to waste time)... I cover this in this post already...
example 2.-
me: lets celebrate my last day on the city, can not think of a better way other than with great company specially my favorite polish blue eye girl...
hb: something crazy happened to my cat today blah blah blah (like George Constanza in the show Seinfeld stuff, where he talks about something totally different out of left field like she did not read or acknowledge last text)
^ here she is just ignoring and changing topics.... if you press it corners her and put you in a chasing mode... So again you have 2 choices, either banter and at high point go for a stronger more to the point can not change topic soft close, or you can corner her and make her give you an answer to the ignored sentence (i call this cornering, which is lowers odds, but again some times you do need to do this)
example 3.-
pua: do you like wine?
hb: yes
pua: we should split a bottle of wine in my romantic balcony? credit pwf
hb: silence
next day hb: morning
pua: morning
hb: how are you? (not ackwnolading at all the soft close like never happened)
Again, if we have a precedence in all scenarios of girls included we now know her little game and the why? so again, banter, high point, soft close but it has to be a more direct soft close, now the second time do not get her get away from subject (again i call this cornering, lower odds, but you may have to do this)
As i said many times a good kind of no way to avoid or get away soft close is the "we should have a quick meet and great to see if the vibe is there, something low pressure such as coffee or a drink? (even if a drink meet at coffee shop to bounce)...
Now there are times specially with the more attractive better texter guys, were the women will be so exited so turn on by you that she is the one that soft closes you (she has to have the new seducer shinny object now, due to emotions and momentum)....
Now you are the one, that either play stupid and pretend you did not get her soft close, or you accidentally did not see the message on time....
hb: Is it ok i know this is last minute if i can see you tonight maybe at 7:00 pm sorry is last minute i just have this amazing feeling about you...
pua: did not reply that day....
pua next day: morning
hb: ghosts...
or
hb: i miss dancing with your crazy ass, let go dancing...
me: yea we should, then i changed topics (ignoring her soft close, could be due to me having girls or plans already)
As we all know women are very risk adverse she can be horny as fuck want a 12 inch dildo but her ego number 1.... She could go into autorejection, like damm maybe he thinks i am desperate, maybe i am trying to hard, maybe now he thinks i am sweating him....
^ this could be bad one she could go into autorejection and is dead, or 2 she could start playing this little power games to be back on the same level as you in the one up, one down dynamic....
- also there are also those few cases were she was looking for a dingdong to go inside and she may be going through her matches or contacts (bad for us if you did not see her and take advantage of her striking her when she is looking for dong)... But this is usually not the norm as much as red pillers want you to believe...
^ anyways, here is the format to how you go into her soft closing you and you ignoring:
- you acknowledge her soft close, you APOLOGIZE so she can save face, you compliment her(no physically), and then you soft close her, if good, then go for hard close...
hb: Is it ok i know this is last minute if i can see you tonight maybe at 7:00 pm sorry is last minute i just have this amazing feeling about you...
me: Cyntia, omg, my bad i just saw this, i am so sorry i felt asleep just woke up to this, definitely the feeling is mutual, and i am relieved you feel the same way, i can tell you have a huge heart and i see the way you talk about your dog let me know you have a nurturing side....
hb: oh no problem, how is your day going??
me: not good
hb: why?
me: cause i missed your message i feel like a tool
hb: no is not big deal, really i understand...
me: thank you for being understanding, we should have a quick meet and greet to see if the vibe in there in person something casual and low pressure like coffee or a drink?
The second scenario on she soft closing you and you ignoring is someone you already know and you somewhat mess around with, so all you need to do is ping, banter, soft close hard close... i just wanted to illustrate scenario cause is part of women soft closing and you ignoring, there is not need to apologize...
this example: hb: i miss dancing with your crazy ass, let go dancing...
^ here no need to apologize like a girl you have not mess at all with... in this one when you are ready and no girls around, you just again text her with the normal structure... open>banter/flirt/high point soft close/hard close...
If you soft close a girl and she does not bite, she knows what you are doing and she is playing stupid to save face and avoid an uncomfortable situation, a lot of girls don't like to reject.... examples:
- you soft close and she pretends she did not see the soft close and changes topics.
- you soft close and she goes silent and opens with a different convo. thread
- she gives you a really weak vague reaction to soft close.
^ my point is the girl is not autistic, she knows was sup, she knows what you are doing, she is not there yet. Or she is not invested enough, or she has other prospects ahead of you, or she is just busy, or she just don't want to reject you and is giving you indirect hints... But that is not our problem you need to solve it....
So i am going to give you different samples of this:
me: You should take a break from that hard work and go dancing with a sexy latin man...
hb: uhmmmm
^ she is giving me nothing to work on... Depending on the situation I need to go back and cont. banter and get a more cornering soft close, or i have to corner her (not ideal to corner but useful in situations when you either want to polarize due to time constraint such as traveling, or you want to polarize cause you want a definite in or out, cause you don't want to waste time)... I cover this in this post already...
example 2.-
me: lets celebrate my last day on the city, can not think of a better way other than with great company specially my favorite polish blue eye girl...
hb: something crazy happened to my cat today blah blah blah (like George Constanza in the show Seinfeld stuff, where he talks about something totally different out of left field like she did not read or acknowledge last text)
^ here she is just ignoring and changing topics.... if you press it corners her and put you in a chasing mode... So again you have 2 choices, either banter and at high point go for a stronger more to the point can not change topic soft close, or you can corner her and make her give you an answer to the ignored sentence (i call this cornering, which is lowers odds, but again some times you do need to do this)
example 3.-
pua: do you like wine?
hb: yes
pua: we should split a bottle of wine in my romantic balcony? credit pwf
hb: silence
next day hb: morning
pua: morning
hb: how are you? (not ackwnolading at all the soft close like never happened)
Again, if we have a precedence in all scenarios of girls included we now know her little game and the why? so again, banter, high point, soft close but it has to be a more direct soft close, now the second time do not get her get away from subject (again i call this cornering, lower odds, but you may have to do this)
As i said many times a good kind of no way to avoid or get away soft close is the "we should have a quick meet and great to see if the vibe is there, something low pressure such as coffee or a drink? (even if a drink meet at coffee shop to bounce)...
Now there are times specially with the more attractive better texter guys, were the women will be so exited so turn on by you that she is the one that soft closes you (she has to have the new seducer shinny object now, due to emotions and momentum)....
Now you are the one, that either play stupid and pretend you did not get her soft close, or you accidentally did not see the message on time....
hb: Is it ok i know this is last minute if i can see you tonight maybe at 7:00 pm sorry is last minute i just have this amazing feeling about you...
pua: did not reply that day....
pua next day: morning
hb: ghosts...
or
hb: i miss dancing with your crazy ass, let go dancing...
me: yea we should, then i changed topics (ignoring her soft close, could be due to me having girls or plans already)
As we all know women are very risk adverse she can be horny as fuck want a 12 inch dildo but her ego number 1.... She could go into autorejection, like damm maybe he thinks i am desperate, maybe i am trying to hard, maybe now he thinks i am sweating him....
^ this could be bad one she could go into autorejection and is dead, or 2 she could start playing this little power games to be back on the same level as you in the one up, one down dynamic....
- also there are also those few cases were she was looking for a dingdong to go inside and she may be going through her matches or contacts (bad for us if you did not see her and take advantage of her striking her when she is looking for dong)... But this is usually not the norm as much as red pillers want you to believe...
^ anyways, here is the format to how you go into her soft closing you and you ignoring:
- you acknowledge her soft close, you APOLOGIZE so she can save face, you compliment her(no physically), and then you soft close her, if good, then go for hard close...
hb: Is it ok i know this is last minute if i can see you tonight maybe at 7:00 pm sorry is last minute i just have this amazing feeling about you...
me: Cyntia, omg, my bad i just saw this, i am so sorry i felt asleep just woke up to this, definitely the feeling is mutual, and i am relieved you feel the same way, i can tell you have a huge heart and i see the way you talk about your dog let me know you have a nurturing side....
hb: oh no problem, how is your day going??
me: not good
hb: why?
me: cause i missed your message i feel like a tool
hb: no is not big deal, really i understand...
me: thank you for being understanding, we should have a quick meet and greet to see if the vibe in there in person something casual and low pressure like coffee or a drink?
The second scenario on she soft closing you and you ignoring is someone you already know and you somewhat mess around with, so all you need to do is ping, banter, soft close hard close... i just wanted to illustrate scenario cause is part of women soft closing and you ignoring, there is not need to apologize...
this example: hb: i miss dancing with your crazy ass, let go dancing...
^ here no need to apologize like a girl you have not mess at all with... in this one when you are ready and no girls around, you just again text her with the normal structure... open>banter/flirt/high point soft close/hard close...
