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The Emerald Archer

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What's good gentlemen?,

There's been a few thought-provoking articles on GC within the past couple months regarding attracting certain types of women and structuring your game + fundamentals in order to do so. I remember Chase stating that there's a steeper learning curve with trying to become a generalist.

For example, I have a couple areas that I would like to get good at specifically, but I also want to keep as many doors open for myself as possible in the art of seduction. Some places I could see myself specializing in are:

  • Nightlife Industry - using a job/position of status/authority (such as bartender or promoter) to leverage pulling new tail. Also learning the social status/social circle maneuvering required to position yourself in order to reap the benefits of a niche like this.

    Direct StreetGame (day/night) - essentially nailing genuine interest openers on girls you meet on the street both during the day and at night

    Bar/Club game rolling solo - being able to roll solo to bars/clubs and open girls and/or groups with girls in them and be able to pull fairly consistently (say be able to go out 2-3x/week and pull a snl)

    Gym Game - becoming proficient at using the gym to meet girls/get numbers and convert those into dates --> sex

    Beach Game/Vacation Game - becoming proficient at leveraging being on vacation (either me or the girls I meet) into efficiently picking up girls and turning that into sex within a relatively quick period of time

Other than those "niches" I described above, the rest of my efforts in seduction I would give equal weight to and wanting to become "generally good" at. For the purpose of this thread, let's define generally proficient as a B+ in a variety of seduction environments/social scenes. Like meeting girls in coffee shops/libraries would be the same level of importance to me as finding them at department stores and grocery stores or malls. I don't have preference for one over the other but would like to be "B+" so that I don't hinder myself from using these avenues to meet new girls and turn that into dates/sex.

Same thing with types of game: Daygame/Nightgame/Social Circle Game

I would like to become equally proficient in all three of those types of game, but maybe have a few areas under each category that I specialize in and claim as my niche.

What's the best/most efficient way to becoming a generalist? Should I start acing my niches first and really specialize on those, or would stepping back and taking a broader approach in general while maybe giving some slight emphasis to certain niches be a better use of my efforts? The reason I say this is because I feel if get good at a few key areas that I may become complacent and not put in the required effort to get generally good at all avenues within seduction and become a generalist, which is my ultimate goal.
 

Hue

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What up Green Arrow,

Other than those "niches" I described above, the rest of my efforts in seduction I would give equal weight to and wanting to become "generally good" at. For the purpose of this thread, let's define generally proficient as a B+ in a variety of seduction environments/social scenes. Like meeting girls in coffee shops/libraries would be the same level of importance to me as finding them at department stores and grocery stores or malls. I don't have preference for one over the other but would like to be "B+" so that I don't hinder myself from using these avenues to meet new girls and turn that into dates/sex.

What results would equal "generally good" for you? Like 5-10 lays in each niche?

What's the best/most efficient way to becoming a generalist? Should I start acing my niches first and really specialize on those, or would stepping back and taking a broader approach in general while maybe giving some slight emphasis to certain niches be a better use of my efforts?

I'm not that adaptive yet, but this is something I'd like to be able to do as well before I leave college.

From everything I've read on here (and from my on/off periods of seduction becoming an obsession, that's a decent bit), it seems to me like the best move is to lock fundamentals the fuck down first and foremost (Chase has written this many times). Some are easier than others to make progress in (like working out), than more practice-based areas (developing a sexy walk, voice, and vibe - body languages).

As you do that, what makes the most sense to me is to pick one until you've made solid progress (you're comfortable), then move to the next one.

That might not be your idea of a B+ the first time you get comfortable though - sometimes life makes you put down certain areas for a minute, before coming back to it. I think that may actually provide some benefit so you don't get too rigid in your ways (at least that's been the case with me). Like you have a shit work schedule and can't go to bars/clubs because you have to get up early, time to day game. The great thing is that there's at least one article/post in just about every area to read up and know what you're getting into.

Momentum is important with getting results, so one thing you could do is "use" an area that you're already solid in to boost confidence, then slide into the next area. When I had a mini streak about 2 months ago (it was 3 different girls one week after the other, plus a bunch of girls' numbers), I was way better with my server game. I just felt sexier and more capable having just successfully seduced 3 different women in under a month, and received more IOI's from the girls at my tables, same with classroom game.

The reason I say this is because I feel if get good at a few key areas that I may become complacent and not put in the required effort to get generally good at all avenues within seduction and become a generalist, which is my ultimate goal.

It's SO easy to get comfortable. To some extent, it may seem and even be a waste to get really good in one area if it's just not applicable to your lifestyle. If you hate the noisiness and chaos of concerts why would you get good at gaming chicks at concerts? Sure there's larger ideas that could be pulled from the experience you get with that, but it seems counterproductive overall to me.

That aside I saw a chance the rapper tweet the other week that basically said he loves getting that uncomfortable, I don't know what the fuck I'm doing feeling, because you ultimately WILL learn from feeling that way. Like approach addiction, getting addicted to that necessary part of learning can provide HUGE BENEFIT.


Hueman
 

Byron

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Just focus on meeting so many different types of people and girls and getting on with them all. Chase talks about this a lot, and Hueman does cover it as well, just thought I'd add my two cents. Socialise as much as you can. I go to quite a prestigious, academic university, but it is in a big city and I'm a bartender at a club that caters to more working class, status obsessed people (think fake tans, expensive watches, very flashy and just drinks a lot, whereas my university is very indie and hipster and into drugs) and getting that job has given me so much more breadth.
 
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