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Hi guys, new to forums, thought I'd post an experience I had with a girl a while ago and see if you guys could tell me where it went wrong.
So I'm an 18 year old guy, I was at a house party recently which was located on campus,I saw this girl - the perfect 10, she was about 6 foot green eyes blonde hair, cliche good looks. Me and my friends hung around for a while but had initially planned to go out to a club. The girl and her friends left for some other party. We hung around for a while as there were a good few girls. Talked to a few but the earlier girl was still on my mind. When we left for the club we bumped into herself and her friends by chance. I started talking to her, and found out the following
We walked as a group for a while, her friend started making out with my mate but I was too scared to make a move on her as I was scared to I'd mess things up (poor form I know, violated the move fast rule)
Long story short, the club was full so we decided we would just go back to the apartments on campus, when we got there I told her to sit on the couch and sat nxt to her. It was awkward for a while as there were people there but I played it relatively cool. We sat there for a while when she suddenly apologized for being "dry" and said it was only because there were people around and that she didn't want people to think that she's a slut. I said it was ok as I would later go out with her thus me being her future boyfriend made it ok. She said maybe we should go back to her room. Now I know what you're thinking, MASSIVE SIGN, but it just didn't feel right,
When the crowd thinned out I made out with her. She was terrible and it was instantly obvious she didn't know what she was doing. I asked her how many guys shed made out with, she said 10 and then admited it was more like 5. we went back to hers where we played cards in the kitchen then I told her to go to her room. She lay down on the bed we made out, she was visibly uncomfortable with this though, I took my top off and she freaked the fuck out and left her room. After she came back into the room she said she wasn't looking for a boyfriend, and the "it's not me it's you" She basically told me she isn't interested. Confusing
Now the following may sound arrogant and cocky but the reason I'm so confused she rejected me is that
Im 6 foot 3,
tanned
handsome,
visibly ripped, play football for the collage
and am currently in first year med - girls have never been a problem hence why this is so mind boggling (once again I apologize as this sounds arrogant)
The next week I went to the movies with some friends, texted her and asked if she wanted to come. She said she was in collage the whole day but thanks for asking Ill see you around etc. When I asked if I could go over to hers to hang out before practise she replied with "Sorry Im not interested in meeting up. Best of luck in the future"
Sorry for the long post, anyone know where I went wrong? Ask away if u need more info
So I'm an 18 year old guy, I was at a house party recently which was located on campus,I saw this girl - the perfect 10, she was about 6 foot green eyes blonde hair, cliche good looks. Me and my friends hung around for a while but had initially planned to go out to a club. The girl and her friends left for some other party. We hung around for a while as there were a good few girls. Talked to a few but the earlier girl was still on my mind. When we left for the club we bumped into herself and her friends by chance. I started talking to her, and found out the following
- She's 18
Studying dentisry
A little bit conservative as she comes from the country side
We walked as a group for a while, her friend started making out with my mate but I was too scared to make a move on her as I was scared to I'd mess things up (poor form I know, violated the move fast rule)
Long story short, the club was full so we decided we would just go back to the apartments on campus, when we got there I told her to sit on the couch and sat nxt to her. It was awkward for a while as there were people there but I played it relatively cool. We sat there for a while when she suddenly apologized for being "dry" and said it was only because there were people around and that she didn't want people to think that she's a slut. I said it was ok as I would later go out with her thus me being her future boyfriend made it ok. She said maybe we should go back to her room. Now I know what you're thinking, MASSIVE SIGN, but it just didn't feel right,
When the crowd thinned out I made out with her. She was terrible and it was instantly obvious she didn't know what she was doing. I asked her how many guys shed made out with, she said 10 and then admited it was more like 5. we went back to hers where we played cards in the kitchen then I told her to go to her room. She lay down on the bed we made out, she was visibly uncomfortable with this though, I took my top off and she freaked the fuck out and left her room. After she came back into the room she said she wasn't looking for a boyfriend, and the "it's not me it's you" She basically told me she isn't interested. Confusing
Now the following may sound arrogant and cocky but the reason I'm so confused she rejected me is that
Im 6 foot 3,
tanned
handsome,
visibly ripped, play football for the collage
and am currently in first year med - girls have never been a problem hence why this is so mind boggling (once again I apologize as this sounds arrogant)
The next week I went to the movies with some friends, texted her and asked if she wanted to come. She said she was in collage the whole day but thanks for asking Ill see you around etc. When I asked if I could go over to hers to hang out before practise she replied with "Sorry Im not interested in meeting up. Best of luck in the future"
Sorry for the long post, anyone know where I went wrong? Ask away if u need more info