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Hey guys,
So I have four girls that I've gotten numbers for. I went out with one on an informational date (see my FR), got a response from another (the single mom), but have two that I'm not getting texts back. I'm trying to figure out where I might've messed up (if at all).
The first girl
The first one is a girl I matched with on Tinder. We had previously met in person so she had my number. She proceeded to text me after remembering me off the Tinder app, said how I was "super super cute" and I told her:
That was Friday night. I texted her Monday:
No Response. So I texted her Wednesday:
And again, no response (it is now Thursday).
The second girl
The second girl I met at the mall. She was interested and we traded numbers. I had to reschedule with her twice and the most recent time (the third reschedule) she said she was feeling ill. Here's the text convo:
That was Oct 3 (last Thursday).
I texted her that following Monday (Oct 7):
No response (its now Oct 10, been 3 days).
The Question
Where did I mess up in these conversations and how can I fix them?
Thank you guys!
NBW
So I have four girls that I've gotten numbers for. I went out with one on an informational date (see my FR), got a response from another (the single mom), but have two that I'm not getting texts back. I'm trying to figure out where I might've messed up (if at all).
The first girl
The first one is a girl I matched with on Tinder. We had previously met in person so she had my number. She proceeded to text me after remembering me off the Tinder app, said how I was "super super cute" and I told her:
Me: "id love to grab a bite or drink with you sometime but Ive been super busy"
Her: "I get that! That'd be nice tho"
Me: "yeah. are you generally free certain days?"
Her: "Umm most Mondays Fridays and Thursday evenings"
Me: "ok. I'll text you next im free one of those days and we'll plan something "
Her: "coolio"
That was Friday night. I texted her Monday:
Me: "hey (name)! hope your morning is going well. I can do Thursday night for coffee if that works for you?"
No Response. So I texted her Wednesday:
Me: "hey (name)! turns out I'm crushed with homework this week so I cant do tomorrow...ugh."
Me: "hope lifes been treating you excellent hows your week been?"
And again, no response (it is now Thursday).
The second girl
The second girl I met at the mall. She was interested and we traded numbers. I had to reschedule with her twice and the most recent time (the third reschedule) she said she was feeling ill. Here's the text convo:
Me: "hey (name)! hope your morning is going well"
Me: "we still on for tonight?"
Her: "Hey, so I'm feeling really ill this morning and my head is absolutely kill me. (crying emoji) Is it ok if I get back to you a little later if I'm feeling better?"
Me: "sorry to hear youre not feeling too well :/"
Me: "but yeah thats not a problem"
That was Oct 3 (last Thursday).
I texted her that following Monday (Oct 7):
Me: "hey (name)! hope youre feeling better and you had a good weekend ~ Ive been super busy myself. whats new with you?"
No response (its now Oct 10, been 3 days).
The Question
Where did I mess up in these conversations and how can I fix them?
Thank you guys!
NBW