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About a month into this. Approaching in bars on weekend nights has seemed like the easiest for me, it's probably just the fact that girls seem the most open there, and about two drinks in makes me feel at ease. Plus you can befriend a random group of people that can serve as a good warm up for the night.
In my mind gym is social circle since you'll most likely run into these girls again, so there's less anxiety there.
Anything during the day freezes me up like crazy. A handful of times I've been able to talk to a girl while we were both waiting for our orders at a cafe but that's about it.
In my mind gym is social circle since you'll most likely run into these girls again, so there's less anxiety there.
Anything during the day freezes me up like crazy. A handful of times I've been able to talk to a girl while we were both waiting for our orders at a cafe but that's about it.
