Which text message would you use for a girl you only partially escalated with?

[Prehistoric]

In the last 4 months it's happened to me at least 4-5 times that I made out with a girl in a bar/club or similar night venues, I didn't manage to bring them home but they gave me their contact.

I know the ideal thing would be to bring her home before escalating and normally that's what I would like to do, but there are some night-life situations where things get physical very easily once you improve your game a bit.

So let's say you already made out with a girl, but she's not been at your place yet. Unlike the situation when you've just met her and got her number there's already some intimacy between the two of you.

You want to write her the day after, what would you say?

I thought about using chase-framing and write something like "Hey Kate, how was your day? been thinking about me the whole time =P?"

What would you guys do?

 

[DLegend]

Re: Which text message would you use for a girl you only partially escalated wit

Don't physically escalate unless it can be turned into sex soon-- this is the motto

If you're getting physical with girls at bars/clubs, get them home quick or be ballsy and have public sex with her or else the mood will just die doooooown.

I don't have experience in this but my gut tells me that the girl probably won't be as interested in you when you shoot her the text and maybe not want anything at all... But it doesn't hurt to try so go ahead and report back how it goes!

-DL

 

[Prehistoric]

Re: Which text message would you use for a girl you only partially escalated wit

I wrote to her the day after we made out (Tuesday) We chatted a bit. She was quite warm (although something didn't feel right). We set up a date for tomorrow (Sunday). Then she writes me yesterday (Friday) suddenly telling me tomorrow she's out of town and she's gonna be out until next Wednesday. She asks me if I am free next weekend, I tell her I still don't know (I don't wanna chase). Then she says: "it would be nice if we could meet up because next Friday I am surely free.

I agree, although it doesn't smell right. I'm going out tonight and next week to meet other girls and get this one out of my mind. If next Friday she actually wants to go out cool, if she starts proposing other days I'll just say I'm busy and that's it. At that point she's the one who can do the chasing if she wants to.

 

[DLegend]

Re: Which text message would you use for a girl you only partially escalated wit

She still seems interested because she still proposed another day for you guys to meet, so spark is still there .

You should peobably not text her at all until Friday comes, then just text her a few hours before comfirming the date.

Good luck on your night out I'm gonna be out there too!

-DL